Need some space

[Makdyn]

Wondering if anyone else has these issues. I have a great friend who I would do anything for, but right now I feel like she is bothering me. she has not done or asked for anything just being her regular self but for some reason I am annoyed with it. Maybe we are spending too much time together and need space from each other. I don't know. I cant not say anything cause I dont want to hurt her feelings.

Does anyone deal with this on occasion? Maybe I am pmsing

 

[I Love Pluto]

Your friend's "regular self" is the "poor me" type? If so, this type of person can run you crazy after a while. It's probably not you, or you wouldn't be concerned.

 

[dg39]

That's me. All my friends knew from the beginning of our friendships that there will be times that "I can't be bothered", and they know not to take it personally. While I love my friends dearly and enjoy spending time with them, I also value the time without them. I'm like that with everyone, except my dh & kids,them I can always be bothered with.

My friends know that after I don't return phone calls, its that time again. No-one gets angry or insulted. They all understand and I understand when they all need their time away from me.