Need some opnions! Need tips!

[MnzWildcat28]

Alright, so I'm in a little but of a rut. We are currently on vacation in Disney. Myself, 20, my sister, 22, my mom and my aunt. In January of 2016, I am planning to come back to Disney for a vacation for the marathon. And I plan on buying my mom's and myself's tickets, hotel, dining plan, etc because she's always bought my trips in the past. I can't afford to buy my sister or my aunts tickets, hotel, dining plan, etc. My aunt probably won't go just because she can't afford it and I don't think she will care and I think she'll be understanding, but I'm feeling guilty about not paying for my sister and I'm having a feeling she'll get mad if I ask to have just a mom and me vacation. But the thing is, my sister is always miserable after the third day in Disney. She gets grumpy and is always complaining about how she misses her boyfriend back home. We've tried so many things, midday breaks by the pool, days off from parks, everything, and she still doesn't seem to have as much fun as the rest of us. She never seems to enjoy herself. Now my mom and I love Disney. We could live here we love it so much. And I actually would really enjoy just a mom and me vacation especially since I know we will both have a blast together. I also just bought my sister a trip to Nashville in June so it's not like I don't do things for her. But I do feel bad about my sister and that situation. Just asking for tips or opinions on the matter. Should I feel this guilty? Or is what I'm doing alright? Should I forget the whole idea of the trip? Is what I'm doing fair?

 

[Disneyaddictz]

Does she need to know your Buying moms tickets? I paid for my moms, sisters and grandmas room last year but we kept it quiet so we wouldn't hurt my cousins or aunts feelings. Do you like the boyfriend? Invite them both!? She's an adult so obviously she has to fund herself. Don't feel guilty though if you work and that's what you want to spend your money on you shoulda jilt free. I wish I could take my little brother and sister every trip but I simply can't, such is life. Can you sit her down and tell her that you all are planning your next trip, lay down the cost And she may say she will pass. Good luck either way, my dh30 and I decided several trips back we spend way too much $$ to go to disney with others, especially someone who doesn't share the same love for disney!

 

[Jennybump]

I agree, you shouldn't feel guilty at all. There is nothing wrong with you and your mom going together, just the two of you. Now, if your sister pitches a fit and you feel like it, you could always say "well, hey, why don't you and bf plan a trip to overlap ours, let me know your dates, and we could plan a couple of ADRs together". Tell her flat-out that you can't afford to pay for anyone else; she has no legitimate cause to feel entitled to be brought along. Her attitude honestly doesn't have to come into it at all ahead of time unless she plans a long trip overlapping yours without a companion of her own to take the pressure off you and mom, and you want to set some boundaries.