C.Ann said:First of all, BIG hugs to you.. I can only imagine how devastated you are..
Secondly, I would NOT cancel your trip if there is any possible way that you can afford it.. You and your children are going to need something positive in your lives - something to smile about - and what better place than Disney World?
Things look terribly bleak right now, I'm sure - but be strong, look forward - not back - and believe in yourself.. You can - and will - survive this and one day you'll be happy again..
, you are going to need them. You need more than anything to surround yourself with positive people. You need people who will be honest (and not just tell you what they think you want to hear) and people who will support you. In these situations, you don't really want someone to paint you an unachievable rosey picture, it may never come true. Be dependent on yourself, take your situation by the bull horn and do not wait on him to decide your future. You have to think about yourself and more importantly your kids. They need you to be their rock right now, and while that may not be easy, you may even need to fake it, they need someone who is there for them. Join a support group in your area if you can, and try to not find one that spouse bashes, because that is not helpful, you might feel better temporarily doing it, but the raw emotions still come back. And always feel as though you can come here for support, sometimes it is easier to get support from faceless people, because you have the anonymety (sp?) of it and you don't feel as though you face embarrassment, but please know that there are many people who have gone through much of the same stuff. God Bless.
