Need prayers and good thoughts for Kevin's Mom today * Update 5/8/11*

[iwynlea]

Kevin, I have not been keeping up with the boards and just heard on the podcast that your mom was so ill. My friend, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Every day is a gift - spend them wisely with your mom.

I had the chance to say goodbye to my grandfather right after Christmas...it was the best gift I have ever had. He hadn't known my dad in months, buy he knew me. He told me he loved me, I told him the same, and he went to sleep and woke in heaven. I pray your mom gets better-and if not, she goes easy into the arms of heaven. We're thinking of you all and wishing you the best.

 

[RalphyBoy]

Kevin,

You don't know me, but with listening to the podcast, you really feel like a friend, and I'm so sorry for all you and your family are going through. I'm glad to hear that your mom is doing better, and I hope this continues. I went through a similar experience with my dad recently, and I know how tough is it. You and your family are in my prayers.

 

[chaoscent]

My thoughts & prayers are with you and yours. Penny

 

[StitchesGr8Fan]

Hope no news is good news. Sending good thoughts your way!

 

[Cherinva]

Hope no news is good news. Sending good thoughts your way!

I was thinking that. Kevin, you all are still in my prayers.

 

[DisneyKevin]

Hi Folks,

Just wanted to give you all an update.

My Mom's condition has not changed much since my last update.

While she has "perked up" a bit since last Monday, her condition has not improved.

It seems that there are so many life threatening issues to conquer and her condition is so weakened, that there is little hope of a recovery.

We are being asked to consider surgery that may prolong her life, but not increase the quality of her life, which at this point is very poor. There is also the possibility that this surgery could cause even greater and more painful problems.

Knowing my Mom as well as we do, we are certain that she would not want to continue on in this manner.

As others who have had to face this can attest, you walk a thin line between what you want and what is best for the person you love.

Nothing in life prepares you for this.

 

[roomthreeseventeen]

Kevin,

Thanks for checking in. I'm so sorry that it isn't better news, but I am so glad you are able to spend this time with your mom and John. Having a partner and loved ones to go through the rough stuff together is what life is all about.

Many, many good wishes for peace and time.

Amy (and Patrick)

 

[jcb]

Kevin,

You and your family have been in my thoughts frequently. I am sorry you are all having to go through this. Know that we are all here for you, anytime.

 

[JenniBugInPink]

...As others who have had to face this can attest, you walk a thin line between what you want and what is best for the person you love.

Nothing in life prepares you for this.

I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. And no, nothing can prepare you for this, not even if you know in advance that it will happen. When you get there it's still the hardest, most painful place you can imagine. Sending you the most empathetic hug I can must over the Internet. Let those around you love you (as I know they do), while you give all your love to your mom (as I know you will), and know that you are doing the very best you can with the choices that are available to you. You will do the right thing, because your mother is a part of your heart.

 

[sjsjbrook]

Thanks for the update Kevin. I think about you, John, your mom and your family everyday.

I am sending you more strength, prayers, pixie dust and love.

The one thing that is horrible about life is watching those we love fade away and it is so true the line of wanting them to stay longer and letting them go.

Stay strong. Take comfort in those around you and keep moving forward the best you can.

Many hugs and much love

 

[SamSam]

Kevin, I am so sorry that you have to face this. I have admired the wonderful relationship you and your mom share, and appreciate that you share that with your podcast listeners.

I'm sending you hugs, and positive thoughts to help you and John get through this difficult,difficult time.

 

[kermit116]

Kevin,

I'm very sorry to hear about this. I always like hearing your reviews on the podcast, and I've enjoyed hearing about the many adventures you've had taking your mom to different Disney restaurants. I hope at this time you all can take comfort in memories of happier times you've had together. You and your family will be in my prayers.

 

[Cherinva]

Thanks for the update Kevin. We will keep you and yours in our thoughts and wish the best for all of you.

 

[15isto2]

I hope that you and your family are ably to have some quality time with your mom and that she is comfortable.

 

[TSWJan78]

Here is hoping you find peace in which ever decision you make and that the good memories of your parents suround you. Continued prayers

 

[slapwhitey]

Thanks for the update Kevin, we think about you guys often and you will all continue to be in our thoughts.

Take care,

Chris

 

[Mndisneygirl]

Kevin - thank you for keeping all of us informed. We will continue to pray for your family and I hope that you all feel the strength we are sending your way. I can only imagine how hard this must be for you. Wishing peace for your family.

 

[skunkvette]

Kevin,

We are thinking of you, John and your family in this difficult time.

I can understand how tough this is on you, having made similar decisions regarding own my parents.

All I can tell you is that three years later, the moment I always remember when I first think of my mom is the last time we hugged, when she was struggling but not yet bowed.

All the bad days that came later are still there in my mind, but the brighter days of the past always shine through.

Take care.

Frank and Cathy

 

[lugnut33]

Stay strong Kevin.

 

[irishdadx4]

Thank you Kevin for taking even a few minutes of your precious time to update for a bunch of strangers on the internet.

I'm so sorry you have to shoulder this burden, but please know you are not alone...there are many many people that love and care for you and your family....please be a peace with your decisions and realize that probably the most selfless, loving decision for your Mom is probably the most painful for you. Saying goodbye is never ever easy, and I can only hope that your soul allows you the comfort of knowing you will one day be back together and your Mom will be suffering no longer.