Hi Jeanette,
We'll be at AKL, too, July 5-10, then CR until the 12th.
I have older kids, DSs 12 and 18, but they still love the little Disney surprises.
I have something, bought in advance, for "pillow gifts" every night.
Night 1) Disney beach towels
2) AKL flashlights that I found in Target
3) T-shirts with their favorite characters
4) Disney books...Quotable Walt Disney for the 18 year old, and Disney Mosaics for the 12 year old
5) pins for trading
6) A bag of edible goodies that I'm going to sneakily buy at the Main Street confectionary store
7) Each gets a Disney-themed video game. I bought these on sale for $12 each at Toys R Us months ago in preparation, and I'm not giving it to them until the last day so they won't be tortured that they can't play until we get home.
I'm lucky my 18 year old still goes for these corny gifts that I say come from Mickey.
As for your DH, I agree with earlier posters that the Segway tour is a great idea, but call right away, since they only take 10 people per day, and it's getting close. I booked the tour for DS18 back in March.
Also parasailing, or perhaps leaving the children in Simba's Clubhouse for a couple of hours while you and DH have a nice dinner alone.
Cirque is great, too, but on the expensive side. What else, hmmm, how about a massage at the AKL Fitness club?
There's so much! I hope this helps.