Need direction: unpleasant topic

[Marion]

Without going into detail, I need direction to some online resource that can help me with advise on supporting someone through the aftermath of a sexual assault. Perhaps with a chatroom? Victim is teenaged.

Thank you in advance.

 

[PRINCESS VIJA]

I am sorry about this, how awful! I do not have an online resource, but may I suggest perhps calling a local woman's shelter, or abuse hotline. Also if you are close with your minister, they might have ideas. Our minister is like family to us, and I know she would know of resources available. Good luck.

 

[Marion]

Thank you for responding....we've already got her over at at clinic for some counselling right now (she wanted to go with a friend, not me). I guess what I'm looking for is some emotional support for me....have been numb since last night....falling apart now.

 

[gemmie214]

I do not have the info you need but I wanted to give you {{{HUGS}}}. You sound like you could use them right now

 

[binny]

(((hugs))) to you I'm so very sorry!

I found svereal through google maybe some will be what you need?

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&...f+sexually+abused+children&btnG=Google+Search



God Bless and again, my sincere sympathies.

 

[Pam]

Marion,
The hospital or clinic should give her some hotlines, names of people who have gone through the same type of experience, etc.

I am so sorry that someone you obviously love very much had to go through such an ordeal.

{{{hugs}}}
Pam

 

[LindaR]

Those above referenced places can give you the support you need, or point you in the right direction.

In any assault, there is more than one victim. The family needs support and counsel as much as the victim. They have issues to deal with too.

I am so sorry.

I am praying for your family now.

 

[newmousecateer]

Marion

Call your local United Way. They have all different agencies to handle this.

{{HUGS}}

 

[damo]

Hi Marion,

I'm have a sister who lives in Flin Flon and I know that there are not necessarily a lot of resourses in remote areas of Manitoba. It sounds to me like you need to talk to some good friends. However, since this is a confidential issue, that may be out of the question. Do you live near Winnipeg or another large centre further north? There will definately be counselling at a women's shelter or hospital. You can call your city info line and they will also be able to direct you. Your police department will also be able to help you out. You need to be strong to give a lot of support. You may not get reliable information on a chat line so be careful who to talk to.

 

[kdibattista]

I'm sorry I can't help but I will keep you and your loved one in my prayers!!

 

[Marion]

Thank you everyone. I've been in touch with a local resource which is helping. I guess I'm feeling helpless at the moment because she's there and I'm waiting to hear from her and I need to DO something, yet stay near the phone. Now that the numbness is wearing off, I guess I'm just reaching out to strangers who might be able to relate to this situation. Thank you again...it's like a scream into the darkness but it's helping me get some of this emotion out

 

[tedsmom]

Wow! I am so sorry for you and your loved ones who are going through this. I don't have any help fore you, but lots of prayers and good thoughts.

 

[Pam]

Marion,
I would suggest that - Screaming! If you are all alone - just let it rip. That would have to alleviate some of that pent up stress.

Please know that we are here for you - and you just come here and talk or vent or whatever. We're good listeners.
Pam

 

[Rajah]

I don't know if there's one there, but check on ivillage.com maybe?

P&PD heading that way.

 

[Kermit]

I don't have any advice, but you're in my prayers. {{{Hugs}}} Thank you for being willing to help that poor person.

 

[Saffron]

{{{{Hugs}}}}

 

[SuiteDisney]

Counseling is the best thing she can do. I know, I've been there and it really helps. Check into the possibility of going for counseling with her. (((hugs)))

 

[Teejay32]

Counseling is a great idea.

If you're her mom or someone who's always been there for her, your job is important too but she may not want to have to relate all the details to you, you know...it's one more thing to have to endure, a parent's pain. I think it's good that she went with a friend.

I think it's very important to just be there and be supportive. Well...more than supportive: she needs to know that she didn't deserve this, she didn't ask for it, she's not 'ruined', or anything of that sort - I don't know what's going to surface first. Maybe just needing a shoulder to cry on and a more level head to rely on, for the moment. I'm so sorry. My best wishes to her.

 

[ugadog99]

I have no advice for you, but I do want to send the best thoughts your way. I am so sorry for what you are going through. Sometimes just "talking" (even if it is on the computer) will help. We are to listen. Sending lots of prayers your way.

Melanie

 

[C.Ann]

I've sent you a PM..

Hugs,
C.Ann