Thank you to everyone for the responses. I feel better having brought this problem here. I really didn't know where else to go. Since the incident, my son has been a bit down, for good reason. His father really gave him a hard time. Started to call him a queer. I am heartbroken over this.
my father is being a jerk.. they can be themost judgemental especially over a son:I but yeah he does the same thingto me. but you need to get that fixed i know it makes me really depressed, but thisboard is about you and youneed to get help before your husband hurts your son emotionally