We have been to DW (we are DVC owners) four time in the past three years and we have two boys now 10 and 11. I will give you an idea of what their favorites are. It will give you a boys perspective.
1. Ohana Breakfast (we like to go about 10:45 after an early start at MK) our boys all time favorite.
2. Garden Grill-They love the interaction, the rotating dining room and we usually do this one as part of our Fantastmic Dinner Package which can be done on the Dining Plan.
3. Crystal Palace is Always our Farewell Dinner which we time to finish up in time to do one more fireworks before we say Good Bye to next year.
4. We love LeCellier but we are Canadian and perhaps this is why. We were there a few weeks ago on July 1st (Canada Day) and is was so fun.
5. The boys really enjoyed Planet Hollywood in Downtown Disney. DH and I found it a bit loud, maybe we were just tired since it was our first night but the boys loved the music and decor.
6. Chef Mickey's is another favorite. We wouldn't miss it! We have been there for a couple of New Year's Eve dinner and had a lot of fun.
7. The boys and (DH and I )always enjoy the fun time at Whispering Canyon at Wilderness Lodge. It's fun to go over on the boat after a day at MK and the interaction there is great.
I hope this helps you some and please feel free to ask me anything else that I may be able to help you. I found disboards and allearsnet.com invaluable

when I started doing research for our first trip and still check them out daily.
Good Luck and Have fun with your plans, that's half of the fun for me.
Joan