I've stayed up and down the scale -- from Fort Wilderness to Wilderness Lodge. I haven't stayed at the Poly yet...someday!!
Honestly, I loved all of the resorts. Ft. Wilderness is my fav, just because I love the grounds, I love how peaceful it is, going to the movie at night, riding bikes with the kids, taking the boat to the MK, etc.
I love Wilderness Lodge in the winter time. It just has that "feel" to it...especially at Christmas.
I love the moderates, especially Coronado Springs...it is so peaceful, the pool is awesome (not quite so peaceful, though...

), they have a hot tub, and funny bartenders at the pool bar. POR and POFQ are peaceful, too. Plus, they have the boat that goes to DTD.
But, ASMo...now, that was just plain fun. Fortunately we must have chosen a good time to go, because there were no loud, screaming kids, large groups of cheerleaders, or swarms of teenagers.

Just families having a good time. The pool is huge, and my boys didn't miss having a slide. Plus, I think of all the resorts we stayed at on property, it had the best food court.
So, each vacation is different with different goals. Luckily, Disney has a resort for those different types of vacations we want.
