My friend, you need a dole whip.
You in no way speak for me. I'm fine with having an opinion, but you sound like Bane telling the people of Gotham the city is theirs for the taking! ;P Here's a Bane quote from
Dark Knight Rises, just replace "Gotham" with "Disney"..."We take Gotham from the corrupt! The rich! The oppressors of generations who have kept you down with myths of opportunity, and we give it back to you... the people. Gotham is yours. None shall interfere. Do as you please. Start by storming Blackgate, and freeing the oppressed! Step forward those who would serve. For an army will be raised. The powerful will be ripped from their decadent nests, and cast out into the cold world that we know and endure. Courts will be convened. Spoils will be enjoyed. Blood will be shed. The police will survive, as they learn to serve true justice. This great city... it will endure. Gotham will survive!"
If you don't like things...don't go. But please don't issue some manifesto and say it speaks for the collective. Like you have a clue how everyone feels or thinks about it.
I had a great first experience with MyMagic+ and Fastpass+ during my last visit to Magic Kingdom. I was nervous about it going in, but both my wife and I called it the best time we've ever had at the park. We got in multiple rides on favorites...using both FP and standby lines. With an insanely large crowd that day no less.
As far as standby lines...I never felt I was in a line longer than tolerable. It forced me to slow down and take in the experience, talking, just enjoying being there, instead of rushing to this or that. Knowing I had FPs for my favorites let me absolutely relax and be okay with a wait. And the ability to change and control my FPs without running around...omg, fantastic.
So if you're raising an army, I'll be on the other side defending the gates!