My wonderful grandfather died this evening

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When I got in this evening, I had a message from the nursing home. When I called, they said I should come. He had been OK until today, but had seemed poorly this morning. Since 5pm he had 'deteriorated significantly'. We went straight away, but he had died a few minutes before we arrived.

He was 94, born on 19 September, 1909 (19 09, 1909 - how many times have I heard him say that?). My lovely Gran died just over 6 weeks ago at 92 and we knew Gramp wouldn't live long without her.

They were the most wonderful grandparents to my brother and me (Mum is an only child). I have such special memories of my time spent with them - endless summers helping Gramp pick peas and runner beans, making cakes with Gran, decorating the tree on Christmas Eve, tea and biscuits in bed sitting between the two of them, bread and dripping for breakfast!

Gramp was British, but born in Wawota, Canada. At the age of one the family came to England, intending to return to Canada, but the First World War broke out and they had to stay.

He was victor ludorum during his career at Burford Grammar School, trained as a Lawyer in the City and always regretted not taking his bar exams, served in Burma in the Second World War (he enlisted voluntarily despite being in a job which would have exempted him), was instrumental in designing a coat of arms for Dursley Town (of which he was clerk to the Rural District Council and where I grew up), was founder president of the Probus and Rotary clubs in the town, and so much more. He was a principled man and a total pedant - always picking us up on our grammar (but never Gran - she could get away with anything!) and totally intolerant of anything less than perfection. He was my mentor and the wisest person. More than anything else, he loved his family.

Thank you for listening. :)
 
:hug: I am sorry for your loss. Your grandparents sound like they were very special people
 
Oh Deb, such wonderful memories of the time you spent with your grandparents. So many special thoughts, and i'm sure plenty of others are running through your mind tonight.

Take care and keep remembering.

Paul
 
Deb I'm so sorry to hear of your loss :(

I am touched by how proud of your grandparents you are and am happy that you have all these great memories. Remember memories are wonderful things even if they make you a little sad sometimes.

Big {{{hugs}}} Deb
 

Oh Deb, I'm so sorry to hear this.

I'm sure your wonderful memories will keep your grandparents alive in your heart - thank you for sharing some of them here with us.:grouphug:
 
Deb,

Your love and pride shine through your post.After a lifetime your Grandfather probably wouldn't want to be without your Gran.

He had a fantastic innings too,I'm sure you'll all miss him.

Karen xx
 
Deb - we were so sorry to hear about your Gramps - and Gran. They're together again now and at peace, which is very important.

The memories you've just shared with us were magical and I'm sure they will help you get through the difficult time with the funeral and Christmas.

When you put your tree up, look over your shoulder and they'll be helping you:hug:

Take care
Annie, Darryl and Katie x
 
So sorry to read about your Grandfather.
What a full and active life he had!
Both he and your Grandmother are looking down on you with great pride.
God bless
Lin xxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
so sorry to hear the news Deb :(

They sound such wonderful Grandparents, what a special place you'll have for them in your heart.

Keep your memories safe..

{{{hugs}}} to you all.
 
I am sorry to here of your loss :( -- some {{{pixie dust}}} winging its way to you



jj....... :(
 
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, what a wonderful piece you have written in honour of him and your gran.

{{{big hugs to you and your family}}}

Alison.
 
Your post is a wonderful tribute to him Debbie.

{{{HUG}}} my friend.
 
Oh Deb how sad:(

But your words about him were so moving......I'm sure that your Gran and Gramps are in peace together now.

{{{hugs}}}
 
Deb i am so sorry to hear of your very sad loss!!!

your message was very moving and really reflected all the love and admiration you had for your granparents i am sure you will treasure and continue to keep there memories alive.

Please Remember that we are always here for you and your family....

Eda
 
Sorry to hear your sad news Deb.

It certainly sounds like your grandfather led a full and constructive life with plenty of time devoted to other people.

Love from Kev and the girls.
 
Deb

Sorry to hear about your Grandfather......you have such wonderful memories of him :)

{{{{{HUGS}}}}}
 
My condolences to you and your family.

94 and 92, they were obviously good, strong people - what amazing changes and events they have lived thru.
 
Deb, sorry to hear this:(

Our thoughts are with you.
 














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