My family needs pixie dust :(

[avdeane]

Teresa,

I am so sorry you are going through this. It is never easy but we do go on and do the best we can with what life gives us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.

 

[mark&sue]

You are doing so well. You should be really proud of yourself. You never know he may come back with his tail between his legs begging you to take him back. My advice to you is don't make it so easy for him to think that he can. I hope that makes sense but I do know what I am talking about. They don't know how good they have got it until they have lost it (and worry that they may lose everything)

Good luck



Susan

 

[mommyx3]

God bless!

 

[2angelsinheaven]

Sending thoughts and pixie dust.

 

[monarchsfan16]

Huge to you and your children. I was 8, my sister was 5 when my parents split up, so I've been in your kids' shoes. You all WILL get through this just fine. We live in a really small town (4000ish people) and my dad has been involved in town gov't forever; my family has been here even longer. Needless to say EVERYONE knows us, and knew what was going on So I understand that too. Despite all my mom's precautions I couldn't avoid everything. It'll be tough at first, but it'll improve. Your kids will adjust. In all honesty, at that age, it all feels like another adventure. I know that sounds stupid, but it does. It's tough, but it's all new, and young kids look at that differently.
And that trip to WDW will absolutely be a great start to the new life. WDW is an amazing place to put things behind you. Best of luck to you and your children.

 

[lvs_eeyore]

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Im glad the kids took it so well. They will do fine especially with a mother like you around. You sound like such a strong lady and they will look to that strength in the months to come. Please keep us updated on how you and the kids are doing.

 

[JennaTX]

I can't imagine how hard this must be for you and your children. But it sounds like they are very lucky to have such a wonderful Mother, who is able to stay strong during all of this. I will remember you in my prayers for many months!

 

[Blondie]

I'm sorry you have to go through this. Stay strong.

 

[talicskai]

The kids are doing okay today. We went to church and they went down for Sunday School. the sermon was a little hard and I cried and everyone was feeling sorry for me. It was terrible but my friends were all there and my parents so I decided to go to the luncheon for World Vision afterwards. I feel better now but very tired. I will update again soon.
Teresa

 

[Soccermom-Cheri]

I've thought about you and your children all weekend. I cannot imagine how hard it must have been to tell your kids.

I send and prayers. And, of course, lot's of

 

[Freyja]

Hope you can get some rest to gather strength to get through the upcoming holidays. My thoughts are with you.

 

[Patty3]

I also have been thinking alot about you and your children. I am so sorry that you have to go through this.

 

[Grandma Bear]

You are in my thoughts and prayers. i know its hard;but staying in church will strengthen you.

 

[eeyoresmountainpals]

and lots of coming your way!

 

[talicskai]

Thank you to all for your support.

 

[Disney Doll]

I am most impressed by your strength and ability to stay strong for your childrens' sake.

 

[talicskai]

Tonight DH is going thru houses to buy and I am home with the kids. I am very melacholy and feeling very unfestive. They both had a good day at school so I was happy with that. I decided to do some Christmas shopping today with a friend to get out of the house and it felt good. I feel like I am struggling more today than ever but maybe because we told the kids over the weekend and it was a relief? I don't get it ~ my emotions are everywhere. Next Monday we go back for another lawyers appointment. In Ontario, we have a new type of law called "Collaborative Law" We have both agreed to never go to court and we have all of our meetings with us and our respective lawyers. It is a very amicable enviroment and deals with each unique situation. It is much less expensive and we make our decisions rather than have a judge decide it for us. I just can't believe I am dealing with all of this. I married my high school sweetheart for life and this is something I never thought would happen to us. I have had so many people so to me "if you guys can't make it ~ what chance do we have?"
Thanks for "listening" I feel safe here and that I can say whatever pops into my mind ~ even if it doesn't make sense.
Teresa

 

[mbw12]

I am so sorry for what you are going through.

 

[Tiggerlover91]

WOW!!!

talicskai...you have just helped me realize how blessed I truly am. DH and I will be celebrating 15 years of marriage next year, we've been together for 18 years. We are both 36.

I read your story and I was like wow, bless her heart, her high school sweetheart, never been with anyone else. Good for you. However, something has torn that apart for you and you are holding it together pretty flippin' good if I may say so myself! Keep strong sweetie, hold it together for your little ones and keep us posted okay.

Blessings to you and thank you for helping me remember what really is important.

Stay strong,

Denise

 

[escape]

Teresa - hugs to you and your kids.

One day at a time.