Sam, I have to say you bother me a lot. My husband and I ALWAYS stay deluxe. (I have persuaded him to stay a few cheaper resorts over the years simply because I want to stay at each resort on property, but it takes some doing each time). If EMH was this big factor, why would we stay deluxe and not just stay at a value? There is much more to vacation than your logic allows. We prefer the perks of the deluxes (bigger rooms, better beds, inside hallways, proximity to parks, better pools, room service, etc). Staying on property even at the value level gives you much more than off site. (no need to rent a car, pay for parking, find parking, find your car at the end of the evening, drive to your hotel when you- the driver- are exhausted, etc. let alone the theming of Disney and its customer service).
As for why cheating and lying is wrong???? Seriously? My grocery store lets you scan and pack your groceries as you shop, so when you get to check out you just scan a barcode above the cash register and pay (your bags are already packed). According to your logic, it is fine for me to add a couple things to my bags without scanning them (and so not paying for them)? I mean who is it hurting? And if the store didnt want me to do that, they would watch my shopping more closely, right? According to you, a grocery employee should follow me around so I dont put things in my bag that I dont scan first.

You really dont see this as a problem?