Hi, I just found this discussion board a few minutes ago. This thread has been very interesting to me.
I lost my legs to a landmine in Vietnam over 30 years ago, left above knee amputation, right below knee amputation. I was totally dependent on a wheelchair for the first 6 months. I couldn't wait to have artificial legs made. Once I had them, I refused to use a wheelchair in public again. I wanted to be "normal".
I have been to WDW twice. The first time I walked everywhere, no matter how sore I was. I am sure I was a pain to be around.
The second time was two years ago and I was convinced to rent an electric cart. That made the trip so much more enjoyable. It was embarrassing though, to me, to be able to go around the lines to get on rides. I was sure people were wondering "what's wrong with him"? I have always refused to wear shorts in public, so most people would never realize what my disability is.
In the last year I have begun to have more pain, evidently due to circulation problems, so I am sure I will be walking less and less in public.
Personally, I think the attitude towards disabled people has improved significantly in the USA in these 30 years that I have been one. Much of the rest of the world though, especially the E European countries, look with disgust at disabled people. Even Russia, I am told, toward their own disabled veterans. I would guess that WDW reflects more of the world's attitude than the rest of the USA.
A year ago I actually built up the courage to wear shorts in public. No one said a word. LOL
As far as your children asking questions. I think most disabled adults realize children are totally innocent and open. I no longer am offended by children asking me anything. I don't like to see adults trying to gag their kids, or scold them for staring. I think that gives the kids the impression there is something to fear.
If anyone has any question of me, I will do my best to answer it. I really hope this type of discussion continues. Thanks.