luvvseeyore
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- Nov 20, 2009
DON'T....I have a only child, and we have brought friends on vacations before and then the vacation is not about your child, you're so busy trying to ensure the other child is having fun, you make your child sacrifice things they may not want to. We've done both, met other couples there and spent a week together, and brought a child with us. All turned out to be not as fun as we had anticipated. This year, we are so looking forward to it "just being us" and it's all about her!
Someone told me, one of the best thing you can do for your child is take them on vacation...don't spoil it for them. Let this be about her, what ever she wants, if she wants to go on a ride, great, if she doesn't then you don't have to feel bad for the other child that might want to.
If you do decide, (well, if my daughter was asked), I would not send her without paying for her myself. My daughter has gone with other people on vacation also (again, not as fun for her as she anticipated) and I always sent enough money with her to pay her own way. They would a couple of times pay her dinner, but mostly she would pay her own way, and also any attractions they went to, she had money to pay her ticket.
Good luck with your decision!
Someone told me, one of the best thing you can do for your child is take them on vacation...don't spoil it for them. Let this be about her, what ever she wants, if she wants to go on a ride, great, if she doesn't then you don't have to feel bad for the other child that might want to.
If you do decide, (well, if my daughter was asked), I would not send her without paying for her myself. My daughter has gone with other people on vacation also (again, not as fun for her as she anticipated) and I always sent enough money with her to pay her own way. They would a couple of times pay her dinner, but mostly she would pay her own way, and also any attractions they went to, she had money to pay her ticket.
Good luck with your decision!