Every person who did not enjoy the party due to over crowding, needs to write a letter or email. It doesn't have to be mean, just factual. "I went to mvmcp on this date and this is what I experienced." " I will not be returning."
I think they're pushing to see how far they can go. If enough people push back, maybe they will once again limit the party guests to a reasonable number. I've been reading overall attendance is down in WDW, they have to try and make it up somewhere and I think the parties are one way they're trying.
I've been to a few parties since 1999 and have never seen crowds like I saw on November 11th of this year. When Peter Pan has a 45 minute wait and Pirates of the Caribbean is 20, you know the park is crowded.
I guess it wasn't like that on the 8th or 12th, but there were way too many people where I was to enjoy it on the 11th. 45 minutes before 2nd parade started-we must have had to stop 20 different groups of people (some who had no wrist bands, but that's another whole issue) at Liberty Square from squeezing in front of us. It was a madhouse and so unnecessary. Add to that taking away freebies like the 5x7 photo, the button and stage shows like Mickeys Once upon a Christmas, it's just not worth the ticket price. Compare that to
MNSSHP the year before (October 11) and there is no comparison. It was busy that night, but manageable. We walked on to most rides, got a seat for the 2nd parade five minutes before it started and only waited short amounts of time at character greets. Lines for treats were non existent. We had a blast! I am sure they didn't come close to selling out that night, which made it very enjoyable.
At this point, it's a gamble whether you picked the right night or not. It shouldn't be.. Disney should be consistently giving you what they advertise..