The OP said her daughter is five and that the child's imagination was limited to what she could see in the pantry. That tells me that the OP wants it to be Disney themed and that the OP wants it to be different from the others.
I was responding to another poster who said that a kid themselves would not come up with a Disney theme, that it is the obessed parents.
Actually, that's not what I said. I never said that OP was obsessed, or that the kid couldn't come up with a Disney theme.
Thank you to everyone for all the great ideas, I will post back which one my DD decides on. She has a new camera, and loves taking pictures. So when I mentioned all the ideas that had been posted, the one seemed to excite her the most was the hidden Mickeys, although could be challenging to get it done during our vacation at WDW this weekend. And any food will be out of the question, we do not need a pot luck of harvested germs coming home, the flu is bad enough around here.
Sorry that so many people who somehow believe that interacting with their children on a family project sent home from school is an evil thing. I never thought I'd see a group of people so judgmental on a Disney Blog....
Thank you to everyone for all the great ideas, I will post back which one my DD decides on. She has a new camera, and loves taking pictures. So when I mentioned all the ideas that had been posted, the one seemed to excite her the most was the hidden Mickeys, although could be challenging to get it done during our vacation at WDW this weekend. And any food will be out of the question, we do not need a pot luck of harvested germs coming home, the flu is bad enough around here.
Sorry that so many people who somehow believe that interacting with their children on a family project sent home from school is an evil thing. I never thought I'd see a group of people so judgmental on a Disney Blog....
This was a family project, or your daughter's project?
I don't get making a big deal about the 100th day of school. It's just another day of school. When I was in school the only days we made a big deal of was the first and last days of the school year. That was it.
Thank you to everyone for all the great ideas, I will post back which one my DD decides on. She has a new camera, and loves taking pictures. So when I mentioned all the ideas that had been posted, the one seemed to excite her the most was the hidden Mickeys, although could be challenging to get it done during our vacation at WDW this weekend. And any food will be out of the question, we do not need a pot luck of harvested germs coming home, the flu is bad enough around here.
Sorry that so many people who somehow believe that interacting with their children on a family project sent home from school is an evil thing. I never thought I'd see a group of people so judgmental on a Disney Blog....
I have found that there is no longer any such thing as a kids' project. All you have to do is go into the classroom and look at the projects and know that parents had a very heavy hand in them. When a 2nd grader builds a nuclear reactor for their science project you know it was a parents project.
I know all sorts of posters will chime in that their kid is gifted or has artistic talent, and, sure, there are 1 or 2 kids in a class that will fit that description, but the majority of the kids should be turning in age appropriate projects.
Long ago, I was advised by a counselor not to do kids homework, or walk them through it. It doesn't teach anything, or any work ethic, or any pride in achievement. My kids do their own work, in their own room, and I check it. I don't do it, and I don't sit and walk them through it. If they truly don't understand something, I help.
Yes, I have had the disappointed child who lamented about other projects being better, but I always put it in this light: Did you do your best? Did you get a good grade? Were you happy with your project before you saw the others? As the kids get older they come to understand that some of the kids have parents doing their work. At that point they are able to verbalize, "I didn't build a scale model nuclear reactor, but I did it all by myself." and they are proud of it.
Thank goodness the teachers are smart enough to figure out whose parents are "heavy handed" in their projects.
As for the 100th day thing. In our schools it has always been a lesson, presented in a fun way, to help kids count to 100, or group in 5s or 10s. Since we are "fighting childhood obesity" my kids weren't allowed to bring in edibles, unless it was of the macaroni glued to something variety.
I respect your decision but I disagree and so far it has been successful with DS15 and DS10.
My kids are the least artistic kids in the planet. Give DS15 a report to write and he will do a fantastic job, perfect grammar and all. But ask him to do a poster board, a diaorma etc, and you get the deer in the headlights look.
Kids are taught many things in school, most times they are NOT (at least in my experience) taught how to do a proper presentation. They are even taught how to write research papers but they are NOT taught about how to make a poster board that is presentable and eye catching and conveys the message of the subject matter. I work with my kids on these projects, I dont do them for them but we work together until they reach an age to do them alone. I have taught them how to line things up, center a title on a poster, put pictures in the proper order or class depending on the project. I have taught them ways to get around them not being able to draw more than a stick figure by tracing or using peel off letters or stencils vs using their own handwriting.
Eventually DS15 got to the point that he could do them more independently, or knew the workarounds to make his project look decent and not be ashamed of it(his words). Despite his lack of artisitc ability to this day, he learned to hand in great posters, dioramas, cells in shoe boxes etc.
He loved when they allowed the kids to do power point presentations instead bc he could control that much better, but the foundation was still laid down so that it needed to be colorful and centered etc.
I also am a stickler for the projects looking presentable. He may have done it but if I dont think it looks neat and well done, he would do it again. They dont need to be perfect, far from it, but if I cant read one of your headings bc you didnt print it nice enough, you are doing it again.
My parents never helped me with my projects as a kid, would barely run out and get me the materials I needed. It was embarrassing when the other kid's projects looked good and mine looked crappy.
I do the same for DS10.
If I can help them study for a test by showing flash cards or quizzing and that is ok, than so is helping them learn how to do a project properly.
And yes my kids projects still look like a kid did them bc they did!
This has worked in our family YMMV.
Pikester said:I also had to teach my DS15 about adding too much info to a project. He would sometimes get off track and add things that didn't really have any baring on the subject.
I respect your decision but I disagree and so far it has been successful with DS15 and DS10.
My kids are the least artistic kids in the planet. Give DS15 a report to write and he will do a fantastic job, perfect grammar and all. But ask him to do a poster board, a diaorma etc, and you get the deer in the headlights look.
Kids are taught many things in school, most times they are NOT (at least in my experience) taught how to do a proper presentation. They are even taught how to write research papers but they are NOT taught about how to make a poster board that is presentable and eye catching and conveys the message of the subject matter. I work with my kids on these projects, I dont do them for them but we work together until they reach an age to do them alone. I have taught them how to line things up, center a title on a poster, put pictures in the proper order or class depending on the project. I have taught them ways to get around them not being able to draw more than a stick figure by tracing or using peel off letters or stencils vs using their own handwriting.
Eventually DS15 got to the point that he could do them more independently, or knew the workarounds to make his project look decent and not be ashamed of it(his words). Despite his lack of artisitc ability to this day, he learned to hand in great posters, dioramas, cells in shoe boxes etc.
He loved when they allowed the kids to do power point presentations instead bc he could control that much better, but the foundation was still laid down so that it needed to be colorful and centered etc.
I also am a stickler for the projects looking presentable. He may have done it but if I dont think it looks neat and well done, he would do it again. They dont need to be perfect, far from it, but if I cant read one of your headings bc you didnt print it nice enough, you are doing it again.
My parents never helped me with my projects as a kid, would barely run out and get me the materials I needed. It was embarrassing when the other kid's projects looked good and mine looked crappy.
I do the same for DS10.
If I can help them study for a test by showing flash cards or quizzing and that is ok, than so is helping them learn how to do a project properly.
And yes my kids projects still look like a kid did them bc they did!
This has worked in our family YMMV.
badblackpug said:I have found that there is no longer any such thing as a kids' project. All you have to do is go into the classroom and look at the projects and know that parents had a very heavy hand in them. When a 2nd grader builds a nuclear reactor for their science project you know it was a parents project.
I know all sorts of posters will chime in that their kid is gifted or has artistic talent, and, sure, there are 1 or 2 kids in a class that will fit that description, but the majority of the kids should be turning in age appropriate projects. ...and someone will always try to throw in the barb that you don't want to interact with your kid, or talk to them. We talk about it, but I'm not doing it, or telling them what to do. I think the need to have really creative or different things at such a young age more feeds the parent's pride. The kid really just thinks it's a fun thing to do, even if they are just counting out 100 paper clips.
Long ago, I was advised by a counselor not to do kids homework, or walk them through it. It doesn't teach anything, or any work ethic, or any pride in achievement. My kids do their own work, in their own room, and I check it. I don't do it, and I don't sit and walk them through it. If they truly don't understand something, I help.
Yes, I have had the disappointed child who lamented about other projects being better, but I always put it in this light: Did you do your best? Did you get a good grade? Were you happy with your project before you saw the others? As the kids get older they come to understand that some of the kids have parents doing their work. At that point they are able to verbalize, "I didn't build a scale model nuclear reactor, but I did it all by myself." and they are proud of it.
Thank goodness the teachers are smart enough to figure out whose parents are "heavy handed" in their projects.
As for the 100th day thing. In our schools it has always been a lesson, presented in a fun way, to help kids count to 100, or group in 5s or 10s. Since we are "fighting childhood obesity" my kids weren't allowed to bring in edibles, unless it was of the macaroni glued to something variety.
Lintasare said:I don't get making a big deal about the 100th day of school. It's just another day of school. When I was in school the only days we made a big deal of was the first and last days of the school year. That was it.
Our teachers are getting smart. The big projects are done at school, not at home. They may be allowed a little computer research at home, but that's it. School says send a poster board, or a shoe box... and kids do the projects at school
(elementary school, btw...)
I've always held to "I passed 2nd grade already... now it's your turn" I don't do anything for my kids that they can do themselves![]()