Just for clarification in case anyone else was as confused as I was. I shared Tikiman's wonderful Trip Report with sister and BIL and they were thrilled with the service offered by the Polynesian.
So BIL contacted Polynesian concierge with some specific questions about what to expect as a guest celebrating a special occassion such as anniversary and or birthday. They said they do try very hard to send a complimentary champagne gift for anniversaries and a small birthday cake on birthdays, but any additional gifts, flowers or treats would need to be ordered by the guest and charged to their account. They also at times do send a last day complimentary gift to repeat guests. They said at times some guests do get too many cakes when more than one staff person puts in a request, which is what Tikiman had said.
They said many guests do call in advance and arrange for champagne, candy, flowers, gifts, etc. to be put in the room for their spouse and they would be glad to assist and bill my account. They can even arrange to have this in your room on the day you arrive.
They were so nice to my BIL, he is going to book his trip at the Poly. The staff said they wished they could do more, but financially they are just not able to and if they do for one they have to offer the same service to all.
Hopefully I was the only one confused,
