Hi everyone,
I was at last night's dessert party so hopefully I can provide some insight.
In terms of checking in for the dessert party, it was a little bit disastrous for my family. We spent the day in MK so around 3:30 pm we started to head towards the front of the park from Tomorrowland to get our wristbands and lanyard for the dessert party. We didn't see any place to get wristbands along the way and things were pretty disorganized on Main Street at this point (rain, many people leaving/coming, changeover of CMs), so we went into Guest Relations. Guest Relations told us that we would need to head back to Tomorrowland to get our wristbands. They said that we would need to check in at Tomorrowland Terrace just before the dessert party started, which we knew was inaccurate because we would need our lanyards to get into the parade viewing area. We went back to Tomorrowland and got our wristbands, but the CMs there also had no idea about where to check-in and receive our lanyards for the dessert party. They redirected us again to Tomorrowland Terrance, but there were no CMs there when we passed through. Finally, I decided to Google search (which I should have done in the first place) and found that I needed to go to Will Call. So, we finally exited the park and finally found the right CMs. We told the CMs in charge of the dessert party that nobody else working in the park knew where to find them. They said that we were only the second group to check in and that there had been some debate about where they should do the check-in, which probably contributed to the confusion. I'm sure check-in will be easier at later parties and we saw CMs passing out lanyards at the entrance to the parade spot, so there were probably multiple opportunities to check in that we just weren't aware of. This whole process is probably easier if you are only coming to the park starting at 4 pm.
The parade viewing spot made the package worthwhile in my opinion. It was located right in town square and there was enough space for almost everyone to have a curbside view. We arrived there around 8:10 pm, but I'm sure that we would have still had a good view had we arrived a little later. It only took us about 5 minutes to get from the Haunted Mansion to the parade spot, with a stop in a very empty Starbucks along the way.

It was a little challenging to get around the Main Street and Castle crowds, since the first Hocus Pocus show started at 8 pm, but it obviously didn't hold us up too much. The area was spacious and I have never been so close to a parade before, so I really enjoyed it. We had a great view of the Headless Horseman and the characters made sure to interact with us during the parade. The only thing that I found annoying was that the spot was at the tail end of the parade route, so we didn't see any floats until about 9:00 pm. Phineas and Ferb and some dancers with candy came out in between, but it still felt like a long lull.
In terms of getting from the parade spot to Tomorrowland Terrace, we had no problem at all. There was no herding that I saw. The parade ended at about 9:15 from the spot where we were, and the dessert party didn't start until 9:35. My sister and I tried to squeeze in a quick character meet and greet with Mickey before heading over, but we decided against waiting since the line was 20 minutes. I do think that would be doable though, we just didn't feel like standing in line. Main Street was pretty much cleared out by the time that we had to walk through to get to Tomorrowland Terrace, so it again only took about 5 minutes. People were moving closer to the castle for Hallowishes and the next Hocus Pocus show which started at 9:20. We had to wait on a short line to get in to the dessert party, but the CMs working it were very nice. We were able to see some of the Hocus Pocus show as we waited, but the view wasn't great.
The dessert party itself was a great experience. I tried each dessert on the buffet and they were all delicious. They had vanilla cupcakes with candy corn icing, mummy chocolate cupcakes, ghost meringues, little cups of dirt with gummy worms, tiramisu, candy corn panna cotta (which actually tasted like Mango and was awesome), rice krispie treats, spider whoopie pies, white and dark chocolate strawberries, witches fingers (which were pretzels dipped in chocolate and possibly peanut butter), mickey oreos which had some type of panna cotta on top, and more. My favorites were the cups of dirt and chocolate covered strawberries. The cupcakes were also really good There was also fruit and some cheese/crackers and an ice cream sundae cart, which I did not try but it definitely looked good. We all got a glass of sparking cider when we checked in, but there was no special toast that I saw. We also all got skull cups with candy inside. The view of Hallowishes was pretty great and it was nice to not have to fight the crowds and stand in one spot for hours. People were really nice about trying not to block one another as well. I was really pleased with the experience.
Overall, I think the dessert party was worthwhile and in some sense saved our night. The crowds were pretty heavy and I think we would have found it stressful to not have a reserved parade and fireworks area, especially since we had already been at the park all day. Not having to line up for the parade gave us a chance to ride the Jungle Cruise and Haunted Mansion, whereas we would have needed to worry about staking out a spot far in advance otherwise. After the party, we walked on Space Mountain, Peter Pan, and Small World. We probably could have done a few more rides, we just weren't up for running around the park anymore. We left right around 12. We felt that our experience was full, but we didn't do any treat trails, see the Hocus Pocus show, or meet any characters which I know many people prioritize. The dessert party is kind of a 2 and a half hour commitment, which is worth it if your priority is seeing the parade and fireworks. It was our first
MNSSHP, so for us it was important to experience the parade and fireworks in full. If you aren't sure that you will definitely want to see the entire parade and fireworks, then I wouldn't recommend the party. However, I think you could definitely arrive to the parade later than we did and take some time before heading over to the dessert party, which could make the experience fuller.
Anyway, I hope this information is somewhat helpful and I am happy to answer any other questions that people have!