DVC Member priced Special Event Tickets are supposed to be will call only, but reports are the on-line system will allow you to have them mailed out.
DVC Member priced Annual Passes have to be picked up at WDW. You can get either a will call confirmation (email) or exchange certificates (aka vouchers), but would still need to stop at either guest relations or a park ticket window to exchange for the actual passes.
I purchased our tickets online through the DVC member site and can confirm they are mailed out to canada at least), arrived by UPS in a few short days. They are sorta like a key to the world card, hard plastic card and they are showing online in MDE. Hope this helps!
I called member services and bought mine. I linked the ticket number they gave me to my disney experience. I wad also able to choose 3 fp for magic kingdom from 4 to 7pm.
Thanks for the information. I had another question. I am going with my daughter, her friend and another family who isn't staying on my DVC reservation and are not members. I also don't plan on attending the party, but the teenagers are all walking over from BLT. Can I order the tickets for everyone? I don't want to order them and then be told they can't use them because they aren't on my DVC reservation.