no doctor would tell a patient that. think your neighbor is exaggerating. even the worst doctor would never do that.
Hmmm, sorry to prove you wrong, but a doctor said that very thing to me about my son.
Our ped referred us to an orthopedist after she noticed a bump on my son's knee joint. The ortho did an ultrasound and an MRI, called us into the office a couple of days later and said "Your son has a cancerous tumor in his leg. Here is the name of the best doctor I know at Sloan Kettering." He gave us our films and a report where he detailed exactly why he made the "diagnosis." He forwarded his report also to SK.
After 3 of the most excruciating weeks waiting in my life, we went to see the doctor at SK, who is, in fact, one of the world's experts in pediatric cancers in long bones. The ortho's report had been so convincing (and SK did not have the films, we brought them with us) that the doctor started our visit by detailing his protocol for bone tumor biopsy and possible amputation during the same surgery should on the spot examination of the biopsy reveal cancer. I will never forget hearing "Then I write my name on the leg in ink, so we are certain to reduce the correct leg . . ." It was horrible.
After the intial discussion, the doctor looked at the films, and started faltering. He read the report again, looked at the films, back and forth. Finally, he said, these pictures are not matching up with this report - I'm not seeing this at all. He did a simple test on my son in the office, which he said made the bump look to him like a cyst. It was near the end of the day, but he called over to the hospital for Special Surgery and immediately scheduled my son for an ultrasound with the head of radiology over there. We ran up the east side of NYC, with my DH carrying my son, just so we could get there in time. The ultrasound at HSS revealed that the bump was a complicated cyst. None of the artifacts that the ortho described in his report were visible to any other doctor. He was totally out and out wrong.
So yes, a doctor would say that to a patient, and he doesn't have to be someone who's obvious as the "worst doctor in the world" - he can be a well respected and often referred doctor in a suburb of NYC!
Jane




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He goes for the surgury to get his prostate removed. Everything was going well. Calls to get the radiation appts start. They asked him to come in. Yep, the lab mixed up the blood work he didn't have cancer it was some other results. My uncle's first concern was for the guy that DID have the cancer and that he had been living w/ it w/o knowing for 6ish months.