I was at a sold out MVMCP this past December and it was mobbed. To the point where it was not enjoyable at all. It was a Mom's only trip. The kids and husbands stayed home. We commented quite a few times about how glad we were our kids were not with us. Getting around with a stroller looked like a nightmare around the Castle and Main Street.
The Castle lighting happens before the party so, you do not need tickets for the party to see it.
The fireworks are special for the party. They were enjoyable but, I was spoiled by Hallowishes (
MNSSHP) and they did not compare.
The parade was cute. I think it is only offered outside the party on Saturdays and the week of Christmas. Someone please correct me if I am wrong with that. I know it was not offered any other time I was there. (12/17-12/19).
I loved the Twas the Night show. Again, I think it is only offered closer to Xmas outside of the party.
The snow was cool but, you can also see it at Osborne Lights.
We are taking our kids this December and they are asking to go to the party. So far, we have not purchased tickets. We might if we get there and the party is not sold out. But, the crowds really made an impact on our fun.
Long story short, I think I would have enjoyed it much more if the crowds were lower.