shovan
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Oh thank you!!
But I feel sad all over again. I had more hope than I planned.
I SOOOO remember those days ....
and the issue with renting to my sister is the whole money vs family thing. They cannot NOT pay us , even 1 month. We were wanting it to be legal so it wasn't b/t us. DH just don't trust her enough yet, and to be fair, I am not sure i do either. She has done some doozies in her life and lied a LOT and even though we forgave, it is hard to trust her. And we know that her DH has a repossessed car in his past and we really don't know him well enough-he is 30 and has been at home and then with my sister and my dad. They have been very stable for a little over a year, and she SEEMS like she has done a great job with thier finances. I guess we could take a chance and give her the benefit of the doubt. I will tell you this though- I really don't think they would default on us b/c my sister looks at my DH like a dad and really respects him. He is the only guy in her life that gave her limits. DH and I started dating when she was 6, so he's known her her whole life. Through my parents divorce, we were the stable ones for her. She lived with us for about 4 months in her senior year, and she made the best grades of her schooling years. She got prego out of wedlock and we helped her with Gabbi, she asked us to take her if she died and be her godparents.
We're just not wanting to let go, but at the same time, would LOVE to have them here-but would be worried about them paying up on a rough month or a layoff, or whatnot. My sister does not even have her GED. But she has a good job now with a oral surgeon and has done well for herself in the past couple years.
We have SOOO much to talk about when he gets home, but for tonight we will enjoy the rest of the game!
Heck, i may have that last Purple Haze in the fridge.
OMGoodness, you are SUCH a blessing! Thank you! We used to go to Pappadeauxs in Dallas to watch the games!
What field is he going into?? I have a friend whose sister is in Houston for her hubby to finish up a cardiology fellowship-then they'd like to come home too!
Lori
C'MON LSU!
Lori, Please call me about the bond for deed. I don't know if you remember any of the complaints I've aired about DH's sister (the one we are doing the bond for deed with) but this really can work for y'all. This sister has pulled everything you can imagine! But the bond for deed is working for us!