Meg and Rob's 10-12-09 SBP/ADH/UK Trip Report- Finally Pretrip Day 1! 6-10-10!

MegKate

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Hello everybody!!

I'm finally married! WAZOO!! And I'm uber excited to share everything in the trip report with you all. :banana: I wish I could say everything went smoothly, but in typical Meg and Rob fashion we hit some.. well... bumps for lack of a better word! So in writing this, I hope you can learn from my mistakes and be a better DISBride! :laughing:

First off - here are the details of the wedding, just in case you forgot...

Date and Time: October 12th, 2009 at Noon

Locations: Sea Breeze Point, Atlantic Dance Hall and UK Lochside

And the major players -

Me! - I'm Meg, 28, a Social Work student at the University of Maine in my senior year. Originally from Worcester, Massachusetts I moved up to Caribou Maine (8 hours north of Boston, on the Canadian border) four years ago and find myself in a state of constant culture shock. Who knew that florescent hunting orange could be a fashion color? I'm hoping to move south next year!

Rob - he's 35, and works in accounting during the day, but at night he comes out as a spiffy meteorologist focused on tropical forecasting. He has his own website and perhaps someone will come along and post it, cause I can't! ;)

I'll introduce you to the others as they come up!

While I was on the plane home, I sat down and wrote out some vendor reviews. I'm not going to include all of them because I'm not done working with them, or I haven't gotten the finished product. I'll be updating this as I go along..

Meg's Brutally Honest Vendor Reviews

The Roots - A+ - If there is any decision that I made 100% correctly in planning this wedding, it was hiring the Roots as our photographers. I've only seen the preview photos, but I know they'll be as gorgeous as our engagement pictures were.

Nathan and Jensey are incredible people - they really kept me sane the day of the wedding. In the craziness that was the morning of my wedding, they functioned not only as awesome photographers, but as (and I'm probably forgetting some titles here) door people, train fluffers, fan attendants (it was 88oF, dewpoint 73oF, and 70% humidity at ceremony time), complaint department, hydration faciliators, protectors (from 8 legged spiders etc. My only regret is that I couldn't have them at the Dessert Party. :sad1:

Seriously - the Roots are just amazing. The pictures that I've seen, are just incredible. I love the Roots not only as photographers, but also as friends. My highest recommendation is for anyone thinking about photography is to get them asap!

Here's the proof of how awesome they are. Definitely check out the slideshow, but if you have time to look at 1820 proofs - feel free!
Slide Show :: http://clients.rootography.com/megrob/
Proofs :: http://proofs.rootweddings.com/pickpic/gallery/splash.php?gallery_id=12 (password is "lightbown")


Reverend Jack Day - A+ - One of the nicest people I've ever met. He really did a beautiful ceremony for us, and all our guests complimented us on it! For us, he was uber easy to work with, and we had no problem getting in touch with him at all. Another great decision there!

Patricia LeJeune - B+ - I've struggled over this rating, and it really could go higher or lower. Let me explain why. Patricia is awesome - a sweetheart, and uber talented! We really only had minimal problems getting in touch with her. She and her associate Christy did an awesome job on all the girls. My makeup was flawless and it held up all day.

The part where I would downgrade her is my hair. I'm really not sure how much of it was the heat and humidity of the day, but my curls went from beautiful curls to waves by the time of the reception. I mean it didn't look bad, but it wasn't a really good look either. My hair just doesn't hold curls, waves etc. It's stick straight. In retrospect, I should have gone with an updo, but I really wanted long curls! I would still recommend Patricia though.

Carolyn Allens - A - For both steaming and tuxes, I would highly recommend CA. We had only one minor problem, and it was quickly remedied. They answered all our questions and were uber helpful. We got everything taken care of and never stepped foot in CA's itself.

Disney

Anaeli (Group Reservation Specialist) - A+! - By far, my favorite person of the whole Disney team! If you have Anaeli, you're in awesome hands. She honestly went above and beyond the entire planning process, and let me tell you - I had people not reserve their roomsuntil they got down there! She handled everything with grace and was literally the calm in the middle of the storm quite often! Not to mention that she helped Rob and I find out about the free dining, which was awesome! Just cannot speak any more highly about Anaeli!! :worship:

Pam Pearce (Wedding Coordinator) - B+ - again, another rating that was hard for me! I love Pam as a person, and she was awesome before we got a planner. But the handoff to the WP was a little rough. Like things I had discussed with her didn't translate over to our WP and it showed up on the wedding day.

Diane Bowen (Wedding Planner) - B - Before the wedding, I would have easily given Diane an A. However, there were a lot of little things that went wrong on our wedding day that were in either the BEO or email that we agreed upon. Like there were mushrooms in the food and we had 3 people (including myself who were allergic), the cake topper was wrong, the music for the ceremony was wrong etc... And these were things that were written out. Personally I like her, but I expected the day to be flawless based on other brides experiences.

DJ Frankie - D - First of all, he didn't email me - I had to get in touch with him. Disney assigned him to me. He gave me attitude when I did get in contact with him! We filled out our forms stating what music we liked and what to avoid. I asked for big band to play during the pre-reception and the dinner and he played Rod Stewart. We had that we liked 80's, 90s music (Rob likes singers like Sarah McLachlan, and I'm more grunge Nirvana, and I'm obcessed with R.E.M.), so it would have made sense that the music that he started with was in those lines. Nope! We got Motown! No one was dancing, and we had that problem the entire time. We got music that you really can't dance to, so the dance floor was empty a good bit of the time. Again, I hate to give these ratings, but even though he was a nice guy in person, it seemed like he didn't care about engaging the group into dancing. :headache:

Disney Bakery - F - I was not at all happy with the cake. The colors were completely off (the yellow ribbon was more yellow-green and the blue hydrangeas were barely blue) The worst of all - they lost my cake topper that I bought and substituted the Minnie/Mickey bride one, which I didn't want!! THey later found it, but I was uber upset! And the cake was wicked dry in my opinion - others liked it alot, but to me it just didn't taste the way it did on the tasting day!

Pending ratings - take these with a grain of Margarita Salt as I'm still working some stuff out with them

DPS - F - I haven't gotten my pictures back from them yet and I'm not quite sure when I'm going to. They took my Dessert Party Pictures, and I wasn't uber happy. It was a team of two photographers, one who was in a constant state of pissiness because we didn't use him for our photos during the day (Literally, he asked me who did our ceremony/reception pictures, and when I said the Roots he turned his nose up, and walked away from me! :eek:) and the other one who made us stand still and not move a muscle during the fireworks pictures. The pissy one was supposedly walking around taking candids, but the only time I saw him taking pictures was when I was doing something like putting food in my mouth or getting crumbs out of the top of my dress!

I called on Tuesday to find out when they'll be ready as my contract says two weeks after the wedding. The woman said that I must have had an old contract because they take three weeks, but they're 5 weeks behind, so maybe in December they'll be ready. I called my photo contact Dara and left a message Tuesday afternoon to get an explanation and she returned my call Friday at 4:45pm and left the office at 5. I will get in contact with her Monday. Stay Tuned... :happytv:

UPDATE to DPS - we got the pictures and I really don't like them at all. Here's the info to check them out -

Please visit http://www.collages.net/disneyweddings, and fill in the following information:

Username: Medlinskas / Lightbown
Password: 1971

Disney Floral - PENDING - Many things were wrong the day of the wedding, and I mean many. But the worst thing of all is that they glued my silk bouquet together and it melted in the sun and got all over my dress. And I must mention, it was a GREEN glue. My floral person is offering to re-make my bouquet and we'll see how that goes before I rate them and go into other things that were wrong.

STVs - PENDING - I don't have the video yet, but I like the sneak peek - check it out on their website!

So begins the TR! We have like 14 days of wedding/honeymoon to get through, and I'll have to break up days I'm sure, so I assume I'll have this done by hmm... our 1st anniversary?! LOL :lmao:I get the Roots Image Disc in next week, so I'll be able to supplement my reviews with pictures, so I hope you follow along! Even with the problems we encountered, we had an absolute blast!! :goodvibes

 
Meg, I am so sorry you had these issues, it frustrates me to know that the little things can get overlooked like that! I do have to agree with you about the cake, I thought ours was very dry too and I definitely noted that when they sent me the survey. All of our guests thought it was good but after the cake tasting at Franck's, I was expecting so much better! :sad2:
 
Love the reviews Meg. I know it is probably hard to be harsh with some of the ratings, but it is so useful to us future brides, and I really appreciate it! I can't wait to see/hear about your day. It looks like there were a few things that went wrong, but your pics look fantastic (especially the one with Stitch!) and it looks like your day overall was fantastic!!
 

Great reviews! I like how clearly and specifically you stated what you liked and didn't like. Can't wait to read more! :goodvibes
 
I'm glad your starting your TR Meg. I'm sorry that you had some things not go well, but it's good information for us future brides. I love your pics from the Roots, they're awesome!
 
Oh Meg! What can I say? I feel like we have planned our weddings together almost every step of the way! I still cant believe that you got to Disney the same day I left! I loved your Roots photos and the STVS preview! Cant wait to see more!
 
Thank you so much for being honest Meg, I know we all appreciate it! I am sooo anxious for your TR! I can't decide between 10 AM and 12 PM at SBP on your one year anniversary! :goodvibes
 
Great reviews so far, I think they will be a huge help to future brides. My hair is also pin straight and doesn't hold a curl, so maybe I should rethink the long cascading curls. I can't believe what happened with your bouquet! How awful! I looked at the Roots slideshow and your pics came out awesome!

Looking forward to hearing more!
 
Thank you for the reviews Meg!

I also have pin-straight hair, and would love to wear it half up/half down. However, I tried a half up/half down style at a wedding I was a bridesmaid in recently, and I had the same issue. By the end of the day half my hair was straight, and half was curly, it was a mess! The girl at the salon promised it would hold, but I should have known better.

I'm glad overall things went well for you. Your pictures so far are amazing!
 
Your pictures are incredible! And I LOVE your colors...and YOU like the word UBER, don't you! :goodvibes
 
YAY! Your back and you've started! Your pics are gorgeous- Roots did an awesome job of capturing the joy of your day:goodvibes Thanks so much for the honest reviews- I'm sorry there were a few problems with your day but thanks so much for posting them so the rest of us can learn from them:upsidedow. Can't wait for the TR to officially startpopcorn::
 
Great vendor reviews. I find them to be very helpful for my wedding coming up very quickly. Can't wait to hear all about your trip!
 
Thanks for the honest posts Meg, really looking forward to the trip report :goodvibes
 
Meg, I am so sorry you had these issues, it frustrates me to know that the little things can get overlooked like that! I do have to agree with you about the cake, I thought ours was very dry too and I definitely noted that when they sent me the survey. All of our guests thought it was good but after the cake tasting at Franck's, I was expecting so much better! :sad2:

I was so bummed!! We didn't even eat the top layer - it wasn't good at all! I'm glad to know I'm not alone in the dry cake dept, but it's too bad that yours was like that as well!

Meg thanks for sharing we are having our PS in dec and this provides some helpful info

You're welcome! :goodvibes The two areas I would advise you to make sure you're really clear on are floral and food. I thought I was, but turned out photos weren't enough! So maybe going over things a few extra times to make sure you're on the same page is my advice!

Love the reviews Meg. I know it is probably hard to be harsh with some of the ratings, but it is so useful to us future brides, and I really appreciate it! I can't wait to see/hear about your day. It looks like there were a few things that went wrong, but your pics look fantastic (especially the one with Stitch!) and it looks like your day overall was fantastic!!

It is really hard to be brutally honest with the ratings as most of those people were really personally nice to me. But they got paid to do a job, and some of them didn't do a good job at all. If my experience helps one bride avoid something, then it was worth it! :goodvibes And I LOVED having Stitch - completely the highlight of the wedding... next to getting married to Rob o'course! LOL :rolleyes1'

Great reviews! I like how clearly and specifically you stated what you liked and didn't like. Can't wait to read more! :goodvibes

Why thank you! :hug: I hope you enjoy it since I stole many of your ideas from your trippie! :rolleyes1 And am looking forward to stealing your anniversary dinner idea next year! :rotfl:

I'm glad your starting your TR Meg. I'm sorry that you had some things not go well, but it's good information for us future brides. I love your pics from the Roots, they're awesome!

Thanks Rachel! I'm glad the reviews can help future DISBrides! :thumbsup2

Oh Meg! What can I say? I feel like we have planned our weddings together almost every step of the way! I still cant believe that you got to Disney the same day I left! I loved your Roots photos and the STVS preview! Cant wait to see more!

I was completely bummed that we missed each other in Disney by a day! I was thinking about you on the plane down though Mrs. Jackson! :hug:

Thank you so much for being honest Meg, I know we all appreciate it! I am sooo anxious for your TR! I can't decide between 10 AM and 12 PM at SBP on your one year anniversary! :goodvibes

Not a problem! Hmm... I'm partial to the 12pm spot myself! I may just be down there then - not sure if we're going to go down for our anniversary, or early December. :) If so, we'll stalk from a distance!

Great reviews so far, I think they will be a huge help to future brides. My hair is also pin straight and doesn't hold a curl, so maybe I should rethink the long cascading curls. I can't believe what happened with your bouquet! How awful! I looked at the Roots slideshow and your pics came out awesome!

Looking forward to hearing more!

Thank you for the reviews Meg!

I also have pin-straight hair, and would love to wear it half up/half down. However, I tried a half up/half down style at a wedding I was a bridesmaid in recently, and I had the same issue. By the end of the day half my hair was straight, and half was curly, it was a mess! The girl at the salon promised it would hold, but I should have known better.

I'm glad overall things went well for you. Your pictures so far are amazing!

Thanks ladies!! :goodvibes Now about that hair -

I don't have my Roots image disc in yet, but I took two pictures off the slideshow to illustrate what happened to my hair.

This is one of my favorite pictures - right after I got the dress on. I was in the airconditioning and the hair was perfect!

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And this was our formal introduction - check it out there!

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This is a bad picture of me from our rehearsal dinner, but it shows you how straight my hair usually is!

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I honestly would have done an updo if I had known my hair was going to revert back to stick straight!

Your pictures are incredible! And I LOVE your colors...and YOU like the word UBER, don't you! :goodvibes

I UBER love the word UBER!! :lmao:I get on these weird word/phrase things - during our wedding/honeymoon it was "with a quickness" which means asap!

YAY! Your back and you've started! Your pics are gorgeous- Roots did an awesome job of capturing the joy of your day:goodvibes Thanks so much for the honest reviews- I'm sorry there were a few problems with your day but thanks so much for posting them so the rest of us can learn from them:upsidedow. Can't wait for the TR to officially startpopcorn::

Great vendor reviews. I find them to be very helpful for my wedding coming up very quickly. Can't wait to hear all about your trip!

Thanks for the honest posts Meg, really looking forward to the trip report :goodvibes

Absolutely not a problem! I hope they help out all the future DISBrides avoid some of my mistakes! :goodvibes
 
my hair did the exact same thing. it was VERY frustrating! I cant wait to read more!!!!!
 
Gotta love honest reviews :thumbsup2 Your pictures are fabulous. I can't wait to read all the juicy details!
 
Sorry about the problems you had :sad1:. I hope Disney does right by you for the mistakes that were made. Thanks for the honest reviews.:goodvibes
 
Thanks for the reviews Meg. Everytime I read what you post about Roots you sway me a little more. Sorry for the negative reviews, I'm anxious to read more!!!:cool1:
 














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