May seem like too personal of a question but...

Im also am so sorry for your loss. To lose a child is the hardest thing to go through.
I think that is a beautiful idea to release the balloons by the castle. I dont think if its just a couple it would be problem.

melomouse--how hard it must have been to lose your dh and on vacation. It think you guys made a beautiful tribute to him.

{{{hugs}}} and prayers for everyone and their losses.
 
I think your idea is beautiful. So sorry for your loss. I hope that you are able to do something that will help you remember your sweet little baby.

You know I think a few balloons would probably be ok. Just think of the number of balloons that must be accidentally let go of on any given day.

Sending you lots of loving, comforting thoughts and hugs. xo
 
I am sorry for your loss...please do whatever it is you and your family need to do to mourn. Yes, the enviroment is important...but you and your families feelings are too. I support your decision to release balloons. Best Wishes for a memorable trip.

Prayers & Pixie Dust *~*~*~*~
 
First let me say I am so sorry for your loss and I hope you find comfort in your trip to Disney. I can't even imagine you heartache.

Never be afraid to post anything here of this nature we are all friends and we are here to comfort each other in a time of need.

I am sure Disney would not mind if you released a couple of balloons they loose more than that eveyday.

I am sending some Pixie Dust and big hugs your way.

Lyn
 

{{{HUGS}}} I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine the pain you and your family must be experiencing. I have no words of wisdom or insight on the balloon issue, but it is a beautiful idea
and under the circumstances whether you choose balloons or bubbles may God grant you the peace and solace that your family needs!

Hugs & Blessings,
Kim
 
Hugs and prayers and Prixie dust comming from me too. I think that one special balloon from each of you would be fine and no one even needs to know. Picking a special balloon and then finding the right time and place for the release could be very meaningful for you both. There are several paths and gardens around the castle that might give you more privacy if you so desired that.
Another thought since WDW has such a special place in your heart, you might like to consider giving to "Give the kids the world" in honor of your little one. It is an orginization that works with make a wish to give kids with life threatning illness a trip to WDW. A child from my school went this year after a 2 year battle with cancer and the things they do are so very special. Prayers with be with you as your take this special trip.


Jordan's mom
 
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and can understand the balloon tribute to your child. However, please consider the lives of the wildlife that Disney works so hard to preserve within their gates when considering this type of tribute. I think the tribute with the bubbles would be quite beautiful and moving, and not harmful to any living creatures.
 
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Those who live in the hearts of others never die........ Release your balloons, and may God bless and keep you always
 
I just wanted to add my hugs to your thread and say what a beautiful thing that would be to celebrate your childs memory. I hope you have a safe and wonderful trip and i believe you will get your hope of releasing the balloons.
 
I feel for you and I think you and your family should do what feels right for you.

I can understand in a small way. I suffered a miscarriage and lost our second child while at WDW in 1997. Unfortunately, for that trip, it wasn't the happiest place in the world. We have continued to return yearly and I have learned to find joy there again (though I have never gone back to the bayou section of DL).

I think your idea is such a wonderful tribute.
 
I wanted to give you a {HUG} and tell you that I am sorry for the loss of your sweet angel.
 
There is a poem by William Wordsworth called 'We are Seven'. It really get to the point of remembering those who have gone before us, and the importance of family. It is my favorite poem, & I always choke up when I read it & teach it in class.

WE ARE SEVEN
--------A SIMPLE Child,
That lightly draws its breath,
And feels its life in every limb,
What should it know of death?

I met a little cottage Girl:
She was eight years old, she said;
Her hair was thick with many a curl
That clustered round her head.

She had a rustic, woodland air,
And she was wildly clad: 10
Her eyes were fair, and very fair;
--Her beauty made me glad.

"Sisters and brothers, little Maid,
How many may you be?"
"How many? Seven in all," she said
And wondering looked at me.

"And where are they? I pray you tell."
She answered, "Seven are we;
And two of us at Conway dwell,
And two are gone to sea. 20

"Two of us in the church-yard lie,
My sister and my brother;
And, in the church-yard cottage, I
Dwell near them with my mother."

"You say that two at Conway dwell,
And two are gone to sea,
Yet ye are seven!--I pray you tell,
Sweet Maid, how this may be."

Then did the little Maid reply,
"Seven boys and girls are we; 30
Two of us in the church-yard lie,
Beneath the church-yard tree."

"You run about, my little Maid,
Your limbs they are alive;
If two are in the church-yard laid,
Then ye are only five."

"Their graves are green, they may be seen,"
The little Maid replied,
"Twelve steps or more from my mother's door,
And they are side by side. 40

"My stockings there I often knit,
My kerchief there I hem;
And there upon the ground I sit,
And sing a song to them.

"And often after sunset, Sir,
When it is light and fair,
I take my little porringer,
And eat my supper there.

"The first that died was sister Jane;
In bed she moaning lay, 50
Till God released her of her pain;
And then she went away.

"So in the church-yard she was laid;
And, when the grass was dry,
Together round her grave we played,
My brother John and I.

"And when the ground was white with snow,
And I could run and slide,
My brother John was forced to go,
And he lies by her side." 60

"How many are you, then," said I,
"If they two are in heaven?"
Quick was the little Maid's reply,
"O Master! we are seven."

"But they are dead; those two are dead!
Their spirits are in heaven!"
'Twas throwing words away; for still
The little Maid would have her will,
And said, "Nay, we are seven!"
1798.

yep, still my favorite.......
 
My DH has a saying that he learned in the military: "Better to do it and apologize than ask and be denied."

However....... my thoughts and prayers are with you in whatever you decide.

Good Luck!
 
I just wanted to say I am sorry for your incredible loss and that I hope whatever you decide to do that it brings some sense of peace to you and your family.

The Leave a Legacy at Epcot might be another way to preserve your memories and honor your child as well, just a thought, in case the ballon thing does not work out.
 
I am very sorry about your loss, I know how you feel. I lost my husband (32) at WDW Dec 9, 2001. To this day, it is hard for me to accept the fact that he is no longer here with us except the wonderful memories we cherish so much.

I think it is a wonderful idea about letting the balloons go at WDW. Just buy the balloons at the park and then just let the CM know what you are about to do and why. Don't ask, just tell them nicely. I don't know how many balloons you want to launch but if it's only 2 or 3, just do it, don't bother to ask. If you are about to launch a dozen or so, then you might let them know.

Whenever the kids get a hold of a ballon, either given free from a store or a party or bought, my son and my daughter would let their balloons go so it will go up to "heaven" where their Daddy is at. We would kiss the balloons first, then say a little prayer and we let them go. We watch the balloons go up and up until we can no longer see them. I have yet to do this at WDW. But I am gonna next time. What could WDW possibly say?? My reason would be..."My kids accidentally let the balloons fly away." No harms done, but I would do it where there's not a lot of trees so it won't get caught.

Good luck and God bless.
 
I can't say anything else that hasn't been said yet , but I want to say that I am terribly sorry for your loss and please do release balloons if that makes you feel better, I can't see any damage done by releasing 2-3 balloons.
 
Camping Griswalds--Definitely go through with your plans. It sounds like less than 10 balloons will be fine.

My prayers and thoughts are with you. I am thankful that I was able to read your post, and even more thankful for what I have because you shared your story.
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray you find peace. I have lost many babies to miscarriage, it is very hard to let go of a dream that was almost real. God bless.
 
I can't add anything else, but just wanted to offer some HUGS to you! I am sure this is extremely emotional for you and if you need anything, please feel free to PM me!

{{HUGS}}
 
I am so sorry to hear about your family's loss. I am touched by everyone's responses and support for you.

There have been some lovely ideas posted already; but I thought I'd add that I've always felt very peaceful in some of the little quiet out-of-the-way spots around the castle. You could chose one that "feels right" and visit it every time you're at WDW and spend some private time.

The areas that overlook the water or the garden areas are especially nice -- and I liked the idea of bubbles - you breath your "life" into them and they are so fragile - just like life.
 

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