Hi all!
My name is Matt, and I am married to Jill (Tigger1221). I've been lurking for quite a while, and finally decided to sign up!
Jill will be really suprised when she sees this, that is if it's not buried under a thousand new posts by tonight![]()
Can't wait to meet you all!
Gydell - I set something up for Kona's on Sunday am at 850am - is that ok? Let me know! Can' t wait!
ok, so when someone says or best offer...how much do you think they are really willing to come down?
Welcome Matt!
Marilyn, I love those pics. They are just great! (You don't look like you were having any fun at all)
ok, so when someone says or best offer...how much do you think they are really willing to come down?
Good to see you Matt!
Marilyn - I love those pics!
Gydell - I set something up for Kona's on Sunday am at 850am - is that ok? Let me know! Can' t wait!
Hi all!
My name is Matt, and I am married to Jill (Tigger1221). I've been lurking for quite a while, and finally decided to sign up!
Jill will be really suprised when she sees this, that is if it's not buried under a thousand new posts by tonight![]()
Can't wait to meet you all!
HollySorry you are still having problem's with Tyler's behavior.He is so lucky to have such a great mom though.
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Kathe
Not so. I've been the world's worst mom these past couple days because I just lost control and have been angry and yelling and just not nice to him. I know those are the worst things in the world to do, so that makes me feel awful, but I just ran out of patience. It just got him more upset and I lost count of how many times each day he screamed, "I hate you!" or "I wish I could go live with my dad forever!" or "I wish I never had to see you ever again!" I ignored each such comment of course.
Holly - I really don't know why kids say this type of thing to their parents other than to let them know that they are upset too. My nephew says this alot to my sister (but never to his stepdad)....I know Ian's always looking for Lisa to reassure him that she loves him and that she will be there for him no matter what. Just reassure Tyler that you love him (which I know you do and have done), and that no matter what is going on that you will be there for him. I'm sure he's scared too, and is looking at you to know that things are ok.
BTW we KNOW you're a great mom!
You are not the world's worst mom! You're the best! When I look back to how I was when mine were little I cringe!
One of our grandson's(age 9) has mild Aspergers and some of the behaviour is very similar to Tyler's. He can't cope with change, change to routine that has been planned etc. It has taken a long long time for his dad to accept it isn't all bad behaviour, his mum had accepted he was different and worked with him well, but it was getting worse. We had noticed many years ago some more odd behaviour such as he had to go on a certain route to school and touch certain things or he threw a paddy or wouldn't move!A couple of months ago they received a letter from school saying he had been naughty in a maths class. Apparently he just wouldn't do the work and wouldn't say why. The teacher got cross. Joel just said he didn't know what to say to her as he didn't understand and wasn't being naughty. Last year's teacher understood him more, but this one was a new. The other week his mum tidied up his bedroom and he came home and tipped everything out and made it a mess again! They have had a few meetings at school and hopefully they have a few things in place to help him and the teachers. He isn't bad enough at all to receive extra help, which is good and bad. They are beginning to worry about the change of school in 2 years though.
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I am off to work soonglad it is last one nightshift then off until 27 Dec
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Scottishwee35
Hi all!
My name is Matt, and I am married to Jill (Tigger1221). I've been lurking for quite a while, and finally decided to sign up!
Jill will be really suprised when she sees this, that is if it's not buried under a thousand new posts by tonight![]()
Can't wait to meet you all!
It's absolutely insane for me to still be up, but I couldn't sleep. Can't shut my brain off. Gonna go read in bed now to help me fall asleep. I love how a good book can take my mind away from reality.![]()
Hey John! Glad you popped in! We were all wondering what happened to you.Hi Guys!
I had to take a moment to check in - it is the crazy season for my business, and between work and shopping, and school stuff I have had very little time.
I miss being here, and yes, I am all thawed out! Amy's chili after the game did the trick. I'll check in and catch up if I get a chance!