Hope your husband does well in his playoffs and you guys have a blast at Disney!!
I am getting ready to take GK's to Lake Almanor for two weeks starting on Friday. The kids and I will fly to Reno and rent an Escalade to drive the two hours from Reno to the lake. We have lots of plans for going out on the boat, fishing, wake boarding, tubing, water skiing, bike riding, playing tennis, golfing, windsurfing, attending all the band shell concerts and kids lessons and activities. I will be a very busy Grandmother.
The rest of the news is both good and not SO good. My surgery is scheduled for September 17 as I have not had another attack and want the rest of the summer to help my family.
On the flip side, DD Jennifer's DH Pete probably has lupus nephritis based on the biopsy. Lupus nephritis is one complication of systemic lupus erythematosus (SLE ). It is related to the autoimmune process of lupus, where the immune system produces antibodies (antinuclear antibody and others) against body components. Complexes of these antibodies and complement accumulate in the kidneys and result in an inflammatory response.
She and DH need a break from the kids as he needs to go on a cytotoxic drug which typically is used for cancer patients. Cytotoxic (cyto=cell, toxic=damage) drugs work by targeting and damaging cells that grow at a rapid rate. In autoimmune diseases and vasculitis the immune system is hyperactive and produces autoantibodies at a rapid rate of growth. Cytotoxic medicines have their greatest effect against rapidly dividing cells and, therefore, can be beneficial by suppressing the cells involved in the hyperactive immune response. The effect is a reduction in disease activity. There are risks associated with the use of cytotoxic drugs. The immune system may be suppressed too much and cause in increased susceptibility to infections such as shingles and pneumonia. The bone marrow may be suppressed and result in reductions in red blood cells, white blood cells and platelets. Suppression of hair cell growth may lead to a net loss of hair. The cytotoxic effects on gonadal cells may lead to sterility. Drugs to reverse the toxic effects on the blood and immune system can be given if needed.
On top of that, Pete's mother was hospitalized and had surgery yesterday for a tumor in her abdomen. They will not know for 4-5 days if it is cancerous. Pete can not be anywhere near a hospital or sick people, so Jen spent the day at the hospital, getting home about 8 PM. Pete is the "rock" of the family so his brothers are not stepping up to the plate causing family anxiety. Elizabeth is divorced, not financially capable of taking care or herself if she has developed a life threatening illness.
With DH and I taking kids away from this drama, it will allow both of them to deal better with the situation. The younger kids are not really aware of much but my almost 13 year old GD is pretty aware something is going on with her dad. None of the kids know anything yet about Elizabeth.
Please pray for both Pete and his mother Elizabeth that all will go well. I will check in as time allows.
Noel