You guys were talking about this a little while ago, so I will share my story . . .
I know you all have probably heard enough from Kim, Angie, and me about the great group we had on our 12/9 DD cruise . . . we spent about a year getting to know each other.
My mom had been ill for about a year. On the weekend before that cruise, I got a call from my sister that she had talked to my mom, and she did not like how mom sounded (my sister is not in town) I called mom, and also did not like what I heard (she sounded very sick) so I rushed over and called 911. They took her to the hospital that Saturday night, and she had a terrible infection - by Sunday she was on life support, and that evening we decided to cut that off, and mom passed away.
We buried mom on Wednesday, and decided with a heavy heart to still go on our vacation - mom would have wanted us to. My friends here were an unbelievable and uplifting group to me in a very difficult time. I could not believe the kindness from many who were total strangers to me and my family other than the contact on these boards. I believe I got more hugs at the terminal from my DIS friends than I received from people I knew all my life at home, and it made all the difference in the world to me.
As someone said, cherish your parents, you never know when you may lose them.