Thanks Jan. Good reminder. I'm 37, but the doc at the women's clinic thinks things are happening early for me. Long story, won't go into the details, but I was having some crazy symptoms (all women who've been through it will know them) and the gyno asked how old my mom was when she started going through menopause. I told her I had no idea because we'd never had reason to discuss it, and she told me to ask and that if she went through it early, that's hereditary and is what's going on with me. So I asked my mom and she told me she started at age 36 with the exact same symptoms I was having, and was done by 40. Wow! Many women go through this for 15 years, so if I get the same good luck as her and only suffer for a few short years, I'll be very happy! So I was put on birth control pills to see if that would regulate things and all symptoms stopped.....AND I started losing weight.
But recently, the hot flashes came back, as well as skipping cycles for 3 months, so it's very possible this is just hormonal emotional problems. But this just feels more "down" than when I was having the mood swings. There's no swing, it's just down. I don't know....but having Tyler back home tonight lifted my spirits. He was so happy and smiley today! We had fun together.