Hey, tracer - I saw a bunch of your posts and wanted to write to you because it sounded like you are in the same situation. We are actually flying into Oakland and staying with my sister in Napa and then driving down. we planned to take the coastal drive, how long do you think that will take. It looks like about 10 hours without stops. Have you ever stayed at the Disneyland hotel? What do you think?
Ok we are back! I have stayed at the DLH but not for many years. So no I have not stayed there with kids. We are going again in Dec and are considering staying there. Right now we are leaning more towards staying at a GN because a)they are a bit cheaper b)we can stay at one that is closer to DL c)we can get a cont. b-fast d) we can get a bigger room, maybe a suite. With the money we save we can do the F! dessert buffet. We really think the boys are still a little young to apprecaite staying onsite. But we have not ruled it out. Sorry I am not much help in this dept am I?!
We are in Sacramento, about an hour from Oakland. We usually leave about 6am, stop for a good b-fast and a light lunch. Depending on traffic in the LA area, we can get there about 1 or 3. I don't speed

, more like go with the flow of traffic, but the flow is about 85 mph on I-5! We are like an hour from Napa also but that is further from LA. 10 hours may be right on for driving time. I haven't done it myself so I don't honesly know.
Food:
Ok for DL...we take a small insulated cooler to keep things like deli meat, cheese sticks, yogurt, fruit, etc. in. Then we pack crackers, fruit snacks, etc.. in our bag. I take a few water bottles and fill their sippy's with milk before we head over. That way I know they have good food to eat and when we sit to eat I don't really stress about them eating "healthy". DL has really stepped up on the kids food choices within the last few years. They have mac n' cheese, chicken fingers, PB and J... Check out the pocket dining guide that my friend Mommy2AllyandAveri made. I also made a sheet up of all the areas/lands in DL and DCA and what food places they have to make it easier for us to find something. I know it will come in very handy. You can PM me your e-mail address and I will send them to you.
Crowds:
We are going two weeks before CA spring breaks begin. That way it will NOT be crowded. The weekend will obviously be more crowded than during the week, but you really shouldn't worry too much about crowds. And if for some odd reason it ends up being crowded when you're there, so what, you'll make do, IT'S DISNEYLAND, the magic is still there! That's the only way to look at it. Someone else wrote it is busy that week, but I don't really see how it can be when spring breaks in CA haven't even begun. Also it is an off peak time so there aren't any fireworks during the week, only weekend. That tells you, DL isn't expecting a high turnout.
Rides:
We took DS1 when he was 10 months old for the first time. We took him on everything we could. Now that he is 3.5 he tells me he isn't riding POTC, hmmm, so do I listen to him or take him anyway?!

DS2 will be 20 months when we go and he has never been. He doesn't like the dark, but hello, almost all the rides are in the dark! So we will take him on the easier ones first like Small World, the Pooh Ride... We will wait to take him on POTC and HM until day 2. There shouldn't be too long of lines and wait times at this time in March. But if there are take advantage of fastpasses and the parentswap/ride share program. It's awesome! Some rides we go on, Buzz (they love this!), autotopia, rockets, small world, casey train, merry-go-round, mr.toad, peter pan, pinochio, and the one next to it (the name slipped my mind), story book, monorail, RR, jungle cruise, POTC, HM, pooh ride, almost everythingin ToonTown... In DCA we go on monsters inc, everything in bugs land, brother bear climbers course thing... I don't know if playhouse disney will be playing at that time, so far it isn't on the scheduel. There are entertainment things to do as well.
What I have learned is to take our time and let the kids do things they want to do as well. I don't like to rush too much because then I am making it about me and not them, ya know what mean?? Don't get me wrong, I do have a scheduel of things I like to get accomplished each day.
Most definitiely, go back for lunchtime and have them take naps! They will be refreshed enough to go back and enjoy more in the evening. We have tried to have DS take naps in the stroller but he was never full energized. So they can catnap in them, but we go back everyday for a full afternoon nap. Plus we get to nap ourselves and freshen up.
Hmmmm, anything else? Let me know and I will try to help you as best I can. My boys are totally climbing on me as I write this so I apologize if it is totally choppy and misspelled!!