I will say this is not an SAFD answer, though I am taking notes on everyone's responses in case they give me some ideas.
But I do have a question-- For a bit of background, we are combining a family vacation with the marathon weekend, arriving Friday of marathon weekend (I'm 'only' doing the marathon) and staying for 1 week. On the trip will be my DH, our 20-month-old, and my parents. My parents offered to stay back in the room one night once our daughter is asleep so DH and I can have a date night. We are considering doing the Disney After Hours at MK that Monday night so we can easily fit in the rides our toddler can't do + enjoy walking around at night with fewer crowds, no stroller, etc., but we have a few concerns:
1) Will I be too tired/sore after running the marathon the day before to really enjoy it?
2) We haven't brought our child to WDW yet, so I have no clue how she'll respond and if she'll be more challenging than normal.
3) Will we be too tired in general? We're normally early risers at home so the thought of staying up late is hard to fathom.
Part of me wants to forget these rational concerns, drink caffeine and be crazy, but I'm afraid I'll regret that and won't be able to enjoy the rest of the trip as I recover from the late night. While it is expensive, we figure we could spend close to that amount on a nice dinner + babysitter at home, so it isn't that different.
I realize that no one can tell me what's the right choice, but figured I would see if anyone has a point we haven't considered yet. Or if you have an alternative date night idea, we're open to that. I don't think we want to necessarily do a nice dinner as it would be later at night (the earliest we could do a dinner would be 8:30 PM or so). We did think about going to AbracadaBar (we're staying at BWV), but we aren't sold on that either...