I really need to sit down and make some sort of schedule of where we will be going on each day of the trip. I have some ADR's to take into consideration, and I want to go to Sea World 1 day too. From what I have been reading on here, sounds like MAW could schedule something for us that I would not know about till the last minute that could alter our schedule. So I am not sure if I should make a schedule or not???
The age old question....
I have read a lot of trip reports and taken several trips since we went on our wish trip...and this is what I think.
Some random thoughts...
I think we should plan - but know the whole time that the plans may change and feel ok with that.
Make multiple ADR's. I know...I will be blasted on the DIS for saying that by someone...but really - this is THE trip. The only Wish Trip - and I think it is perfectly ok to make ADR's for more than you think you will really be able to do...especially since we don't know the budget till right before. I definitely think we should cancel any as soon as we know we won't make it... And if there is a real important one to your wish child - make it twice, just in case. I wish we had done this.
Plan. Planning helps you learn Disney. Learn where the crowds go and when - that way you can avoid them

. If you have time - subscribe to Tour Guide Mike or Touringplans.com and get an idea of the crowd levels and good and bad parks. I have started to really like Tour Guide Mike on that info. If you understand why you are planning things for certain days, then when you get there and it is pouring down rain or someone gets sick, you will know which park would be best and you can swap things around. (For example - we like Epcot in the rain because there are so many indoor things we want to do. The MK could work this way, too - if you are interested in the indoor type rides.)
But for the wish trip - honestly, you will have a BLAST even if you NEVER plan a thing. GKTW has a LOT for families to do. Really many families could just go there and be busy and happy for several days.
And if you are staying on Disney property - they have lots to do there, too!
There is way too much to do to do it all - so we no longer even try. We pick a few things we really want to do and do those and the rest is icing on the cake.
Maximize "Wish Only" things if you plan to go back for a future trip to Disney. If you know you are going back in a few years, then try to plan those Wish Trip only things to the max. If we could do it over, we would have done more characters and rides and fewer shows. You get more from the "button" that way.
The magic moments will happen. It may be a special CM, a parade, a character or dancing on Main Street - but it will happen. Happens on every trip that has been reported here. Every. One. And I have not seen the same magic moment twice yet, either.
So...random thoughts from Mary are done for the day.
