Major PD Needed for DBF and Me

[paras4ri]

More headed your way CS.

 

[CourtasanSatine]

tommorow is hopefully the night we'll have some time together.I'll post a update in about 45 minutes after our nightly phone call

 

[Serena]

Good luck.

 

[CourtasanSatine]

tonight's update: the bIL is waging war via email withc means DBf is chaning passwords and will be writing me from his other email address.If all goes well we'll have some time together tommorow night(supper and checking out which theater got what movie to plan for this weekend if all goes to plan).Keep the vibes coming,DBF sounded better on the phone tonight and he's living with his roommates(which is good news for a worried me)

 

[ohanafamily]

More PD to you....

Hey, there is a Dis-meet on Friday night near Six-flags in Arlington....

 

[shep]

 

[s&k'smom]

Oh I hope it all works out. I understand about inlaws and the trouble they can cause. Believe me I totally understand. Keep strong.

 

[CourtasanSatine]

ohana: no meets untill the summer(bad timing but hey it does sound like fun )

 

[CourtasanSatine]

update from last night's call:

DBF may change both his password and email address to keep the BIL from using email as a weapon.But he also got a part time job to send more cash into a used car I'll know more when we talk this afternoon(we may finally get some time together) keep those fingers crossed

 

[ohanafamily]

More PD your way, I hope tonights call is a good'un

On Friday we are going to a Dis-Meet at the Ball-Park (next to Six Flags) if you can arrange it, the drive might give you some time to talk?

OK, I wont push, but let us know if you will be coming over our way.....

 

[CourtasanSatine]

I'm talking to DBF on IM right now,update soon

 

[Serena]

 

[CourtasanSatine]

update from last night: we may get a road trip next month if all goes to plan(and DBF gets that weekend off).Things are still testy on the homefront and he may change emails to throw BIL off the tracks(and cursade).It was nice to talk on IM last night and keep the vibes coming

 

[goofy4tink]

Hang in there. Sending you some good thoughts and prayers that life will finally straighten out for you both.

 

[CourtasanSatine]

update: things got worse.BIL dowloaded porn on the computer DBf uses at his mom's.He did tell me he's moving out ASAP and he's already got roommates(witch I kow and like so that's one less worry).If all goes well he'll get to come in this weekend so keep those fingers crossed.I'm holding on and we're just being there for each other any way possible.

I'm just one worried GF right now

 

[ohanafamily]

A little worry is a good thing, it keeps us sharp. but when it starts to consume us we loose sight of life. I have seen wprry take over people. I humbly suggest to be there for him, discuss the matter, work through it, and once you get to the point where you have rehashed averything 3-4 times...let it go for a while and enjoy being with each other...Remember Meredith in the Bachelor...She lost a GM, and let it interfere with her dating. Not necessarily a bad thing, but it kept her from spending quality time with BB. I know this is a bad example, but I hope you see my point.

When you are with each other, you should have some time away from all of the problems...

Also, I would not be so quick to accuse BIL of downloading PORN on his computer, there is a viruse out there that downloads some very convincing files that look like porn. Also, some of it may be unintentional (like e-mail attachments. The Schlotski's near myoffice closed 2 days ago, and there was a handwritten note (made with a Sharpie-type pen) on the door saying for more information see this website. It was one of the nastiest pictures I have ever seen. Some people get their kicks that way...

 

[CourtasanSatine]

We only rehash when something happens and DBF is pretty sure it's not a virus that caused this.He ran the program as soon as he knew what was going on and nothing virus wise was on the computer.I'm doing everything I can to help in spite of the miles and hopefully we'll get some time together this weekend(something about seeing Scooby 2 and pizza)

 

[ohanafamily]

Great Movie choice...

 

[CourtasanSatine]

update for tonight

Things may just be looking up for us.We got the dates wrong for the movie so we'll be seeing Scooby 2 next weekend and hopefully things will get better since DBF is moving out of his mom's and away from BIL

 

[ohanafamily]

Sometimes Little Things Help a whole lot, PD, Thoughts and Prayers..