Well, that's the problem. I don't believe every minute must be accounted for. There are some people who feel the need to do that, but not many. We thoroughly enjoy our trips, and never plan in detail. I'll admit, that's much easier the more often you go.
But the thing is, it's no different than any vacation. It's 2015, there is a wealth of information at our fingertips, either we choose to use it or we don't. For example, the last cruise we went on I did the research on the ports, excursions, airfare, hotel night before, getting to/from the port, how dining works, etc. I don't mind doing the research, in fact it's fun for me.
However, once that work is done, I'm done. On any vacation, WDW or otherwise, I am not going to obsess over doing something wrong, missing something, etc. It is VACATION. Relax and have fun.
I agree. For the most part (there are always exceptions), I really don't think Disney needs to be planned to the minute. I know that's how I planned for our trip, and as I've said many times - it was really a waste, and was a lot of unnecessary stress (and NO, it wasn't because we had
DAS, before that one gets thrown out again). In the end, the only way I see it (that level of planning) being necessary is if you feel you want to do a marathon where you're trying to cram as much in as possible. And if that's how you feel/want to travel then by all means that's your right, and yes, you'd better plan to the minute. But for the average Joe, who just wants to go and have a good time and is more content to be spontaneous, I really don't see the minute to minute, minute detail plans necessary.
Look over the attractions, entertainment and dining options and get an idea of what you'd like to do
Book your ADRs
Book your FP+
Look over a map of the parks so you have a general idea of where things are so you're not wandering aimlessly (unless you want to!)
Plan on arriving 30-60 minutes early for parades, fireworks, depending on how good of a view you want
And go have fun!
Seriously, IMO, that's really all that's necessary. I mean joining a board like this to learn some tips like saving your FP+ for your "must do" rides later in the day, making use of rope drop etc... is definitely a great idea. And Disney does require more planning than your usual vacations yes, due to the ADR/FP+ aspect. But I don't see minute to minute plans as necessary to have a good time at all. For certain types of people/travelers yes, but I certainly wouldn't say for the majority. Also, as far as things like researching hotels, extra excursions, airfare transfer etc... that is not exclusive to Disney. That is stuff you have to do for any trip. And if anything, Disney makes that far easier for it's guests.
And I know that the word "spontaneous" gets thrown out a lot here, saying that it's impossible to be spontaneous at Disney. But that is just not true. If you're the kind of person who thinks spontaneity can only mean your entire day is 100% unplanned, then sure. But, I know once we walked into the parks, we were certainly spontaneous. Examples of our
spontaneous decisions: we chose spur of the moment three times to eat lunch in the parks instead of going back home - and had 0 problem getting seating at Peco Bills, Village Haus and the bakery place in France. There were were a couple Fastpasses we never used because wanted to do something else instead. Sometimes we changed a FP+ on the fly because we wanted to do something else, or do it later. We skipped rides we'd "planned". We rode rides a couple times in a row instead of moving on to something else. We did character M&Gs that we never "planned", because the kids saw them and wanted to. The kids got faces painted in the World Showcase. They built light sabers at HS. My husband and I chased down a photographer so we could have our picture taken on the racer thingy at HS, lol. We walked by the dance party at HS intending to go elsewhere, and instead stayed in the crowd and our kids got to dance next to Mickey! A couple times we chose to split up so we could each take the kids on different things (something we "planned" not to do). I'm sure there's more. But, point is, these were all spontaneous
(occurring as a result of a sudden inner impulse or inclination) decisions. So yes, even with FP+ and ADR, you can be very spontaneous at Disney. No, we didn't get every ride done. But we had so much fun being spontaneous, doing less rides, and I think we got to experience far more, than if we had just been preoccupied with running from ride to ride.