Hello!! I did a request on FB and we are all paid up on the cruise!!
I am very interested in doing the FE but still not sure how it works. If there are 30 cabins would you bring 30 items for each day of the cruise? Or individual items for each family member in the cabin for each day of the cruise? Also we have older kids that will be in the room next to us and smaller in the room with us so would you recommend two fish extenders? In the past is this something teen boys would enjoy? Sorry for so many questions I just don't want to commit to doing it until I"m sure i understand it.
Also could you please add DH Ryan to our family on the list...poor guy was left out when I listed all the kids. LOL
Thanks and can't wait to go on our first
Disney cruise!!!!
Eve
Fish Extender Exchanges can be very flexible. But generally-speaking you do one or two gifts per stateroom participating over the course of the cruise. (I always do one, but I have seen others make several drop-offs, so it's really up to you.) You do not need to give out gifts every day!
The gifts are generally small, inexpensive, and related to the cruise or where you are from. So you'll see people hand out stuff for pirate night, or homemade scrapbook stuff to commemorate the cruise, or Disney stickers/tattoos. I have seen some folks do special cruise survival kits with little items that could be useful during the cruise such as a sewing kit, highlighters for the Navigator, and chocolate for those late night cravings. Others bring keychains, postcards, or specialty treats from where they are from. Really, it's up to you to put your special mark on your gift. Some choose to be anonymous about their gifts, and others put tags on telling you who delivered it. Again - entirely up to you. (Although, I do really like to know who gave me what. But that's just me.)
Some folks will personalize the gift for each cabin, which is why the list will include who is in each cabin (with ages of the kids). Kids particularly like to get something specially for them. Others will bring general gifts and each cabin gets the same. This second option is much easier to distribute since you don't have to worry about getting the right gift to the right cabin. But this is also entirely up to you.
If you have two cabins for your family, again, it's up to you if you want to do one or two FE. We only do one. But if your teenagers are old enough and want to do their own (meaning they distribute to everyone else as well), that's perfectly fine. Just add their names and cabin number separately to the FE list. Otherwise, their names/ages should be included under your name & cabin on the list.
Ultimately, it's not about the size or number of the gifts, but whether you have fun doing it. So make it your own and let it work for you to make your vacation that much more magical.
Today is Eid - the end of Ramadan - so I have the day off! Yeah!!!!

Guess I'll work on some more FE gifts!
