Love

[DisneyDougforever]

You know...I kinda hate love. We are always told to follow our hearts and I have tried that. I know that I am only a teenager but, sometimes I think my heart hates me and likes to play tricks on me. I have searched and searched but I have never found her. I dont want an internet hook up or anything i want to find my true love like in the Movies. Like High School Musical. Troy and Gabrella go on vaction with their families and they accidently find their soul mates. I watch that movie over and over and I think why cant that happen to me. If there is anyone out there who feels the same, like their hearts have been playing games with them or if you found your soulmate post. Id like to hear how you met.

 

[EeyoreFan1]

<sigh> No luck for me either, I can relate to you 100% I always dream of my "love life" to be similar to "A Walk to Remember" without me having cancer.

 

[Babyjustrun]

don't worry, i feel the same way.
i love watching movies, but they make me sad. i've never actually dated someone, because either i'm afraid of rejection, or i'm holding out for that one. there is someone i want to ask out, but it's hard because i won't be seeing him over the summer & he has a girlfriend. i've been hearing that his girlfriend wants to break up with him.. but y'know. i'm not sure he's the one.
i'm afraid to end up alone, so someday soon i will just put my heart on the line. i want someone who would walk up behind me and hold me around the waist. i get so jealous of people who have guys to hug them when they're cold.. you 'know.

 

[jasonpwns]

im a teenager also but found no one yet just wait there is someone looking for you right now just got to wait

 

[Dragonlord11_7]

...Love. What a word with so many meanings. I can't believe all my friends asked my crush out for me, and she said Yes if I asked her myself...

 

[BlueEyes9605]

you should deff. ask her out!! one of my best friends thinks that she is in real, true Love. But she says that about every guy shes crushing on, and let me tell ya, there have been quite a few. As for me, I don't feel the urge for love but maybe just some crushes. Cause those are always fun!

 

[SKEEBO SAYS WHA?]

i think im afraid of commitment.. for some reason iam afraid that i would cheat on someone i truly care about and it would be all over with and i don't think i would be able to break someone elses heart like that or im afraid that someone would break mine

 

[HeDiedxILive]

Love.

What a topic.

There's this guy in my life. We have a thing for each other, but we're not really doing anything about it. He lives two hours away.
He's also heading off to college in the fall... college halfway across the country. I still have a year to go before I graduate.
I guess we just don't see it working right now. The only time that it bothers me is when I watch movies like that, though. Movies make me want a relationship so badly. But that isn't life. It what we wish life was. You know what? Life can be BETTER than those movies when we find the right person. I think that so many times people settle for less, or set their standards too high, because of what they see in the movies.

I am not too worried about that relationship working out right now. If it's God's plan for us to be together... then it will all work out. If not, then thats great too! I know that there's still someone out there, just for me.

I guess what I am trying to say is... we're young. We're in high school. It's highly unlikely we're going to find our soul mates. Just relax! Don't give away too much of your heart! Save as much of it as you can for the person you will spend forever with... our times will come.

 

[PolynessianBaby]

Love. It's a very hard thing to describe. I don't know if I've been in LOVE...but I've been totally CRAZY about a guy before. We dated for a while, and then had a really bad break up and I ended up hating him for like 5 months or so. I still don't really like doing the whole boyfriend thing. I like to have fun, just hanging out with who ever I want is fun. You don't have to worry about the drama a guy creates, and a big thing for me, I don't set myself up for another broken heart. I mean I'm a teenager, I shouldn't have to be commited to 1 person for the rest of my life just b/c "every one else is doing it!" I think teens should take things slower and just have a little more fun in life before telling someone you "LOVE" them! Just make sure you aren't just saying it to say it...It could really hurt in the end.
Taylor*

 

[polysisterchick]

You know...I kinda hate love. We are always told to follow our hearts and I have tried that. I know that I am only a teenager but, sometimes I think my heart hates me and likes to play tricks on me.

It's not your heart that hates you.. it's these darn teenage hormones that we've been blessed with...

I have searched and searched but I have never found her. I dont want an internet hook up or anything i want to find my true love like in the Movies. Like High School Musical. Troy and Gabrella go on vaction with their families and they accidently find their soul mates. I watch that movie over and over and I think why cant that happen to me. If there is anyone out there who feels the same, like their hearts have been playing games with them or if you found your soulmate post. Id like to hear how you met.

Don't worry.. she'll find you eventually

I am not too worried about that relationship working out right now. If it's God's plan for us to be together... then it will all work out. If not, then thats great too! I know that there's still someone out there, just for me.

I guess what I am trying to say is... we're young. We're in high school. It's highly unlikely we're going to find our soul mates. Just relax! Don't give away too much of your heart! Save as much of it as you can for the person you will spend forever with... our times will come.

I so agree with this....

 

[ladysparrow]

DisneyDougforever I know that I am only a teenager but, sometimes I think my heart hates me and likes to play tricks on me.

Oh honey, I'm in my last year of teenagehood, and the same love crap still gets to me. Just because you're a teenager doesn't mean you're incapable of loving someone (don't let any adult tell you otherwise) You may grow up but your heart will always play tricks on you... hahaha. You'll find your special lady. Have hope

 

[cheerchick]

I don't have a problem w/ love. It's just that sometimes it STINKS!!! I dated a guy for like 5 1/2 months n I broke up w/ him after that. I still like him n all n b-4 school ended it seemed like he still liked me 2, but I said that I would never go bck out w/ him cuz of my friends n all. It was kinda off n on for those 5 1/2 months. He was my first everything. 1st love, 1st kiss, 1st long b/f n probally more. I still like him, but I know that I need 2 get over him. I also know that I will find someone better than him but it's hard 2 forget about him.

My friend said that she talked 2 him n he said that he missed me n that he tried 2 call me but I know that he didn't cuz I would've answered it unless I wasn't home. So I don't believe him, but for some odd reason my friend did. (I don't know if she still does or not.) But they kept tellin me 2 call him. I would but I have a problem w/ callin guys n plus I don't know if he still likes me or not.

I wish that I had a b/f but I probally wouldn't talk 2 them over the summer anyways. I could hve one but I don't really like him a lot. Maybe a little. Lets just say he's ot the most attractive guy but really sweet. I dated him last year for 1 1/2 and he still likes me and I like him a little bit. I kinda want 2 tell him but I don't.

Enough rambling on. I probally made everyone fall asleep. Lol.

 

[Lil_Tink]

Well.

I liked this boy alot.
He liked me alot.
We somewhat like hooked up but never actually asked eachother out because he went to camp.
My bff said that at camp he was miserable and didnt flirt or anything with girls, only talked about me.
The last two days of camp he meets this girl and totally forgets about me.
So he comes home and has himself a girlfriend who isnt me. I find it amazing how he can totally forget about me and fall in love in 3 days.

 

[Sparx]

this post is gonna sound like a soap opera, just bear with me.

guy one

I really really liked him. you could probably say I loved him.
one day he leaves. I swear it was just like that. one day he was there, the next he was gone.

It took me a really really long time to finally come to terms with the fact that he was gone.

so I move on

here comes guy two

we flirt and basically are going out, but nether of us ever verbalize that. you know the type. teh first person you look for in a crowded room? basically a romance movie.

then guy one shows up out of no where. right as i've moved on. and everything comes flooding back.

so now there is guy one and guy two.

and to maek this even more twisted. lets throw guy three in this.

hes younger than me. and has a crush on me. hes funny and sweet but I just really don't think about him like that.

and the worst part, they're all freinds.


talk about complicated.

 

[ladysparrow]

one way to tell if a guy is going to be that way is how fast he moves with you. Holding your hand by 10 minutes, telling you like likes you by 15, hooking up(whatever you define that as) by the hour...Telling you he really likes you the first day...Guys just do that. It's sad because girls fall so easy. I'm sorry to hear about your heartache. I could write a book on mine

 

[Lil_Tink]

one way to tell if a guy is going to be that way is how fast he moves with you. Holding your hand by 10 minutes, telling you like likes you by 15, hooking up(whatever you define that as) by the hour...Telling you he really likes you the first day...Guys just do that. It's sad because girls fall so easy. I'm sorry to hear about your heartache. I could write a book on mine

Yeah I guess thats all he did.
Hook up like realize we like eachother but not going out

 

[BlueEyes9605]

I've never been in love, but i don't really think that I want to. It just seems way too confusing.

 

[Babyjustrun]

i'm giving it two weeks into school.
i'm going to talk to a bunch of guys i've previously had crushes on (this just means, that i became obsessed with another guy, i just kind of forgot about them) and i think i might ask one out. i think i spend too much time thinking things over, enjoying my little fantasy world more than my real one. i know at my age, guys are less likely to just ask someone out, they're young, immature & shy.

 

[MyHappyEnding_]

I haven't been in love. I've have relationships but never even thought about being in love. I'm not even 16 yet so I'm just going to have fun..

 

[jenbabe13]

yep ive had the worst luck with bfs...

1st one- never talked to me, never called me, never went out with me..wasnt really a bf then..

2nd one- cheated on me

3rd one- was totally obsessed with me, never stopped calling me....never left me alone for 2 seconds at school..talked like 4hrs striaght on phone and he called back 15 min later to talk more...and i had nothing else 2 say...ugh i dumped him!

4th one- cheated on me...and now wont call me back so i can make sure its true before i dump him. and his mom is REALLY mean to me and i didnt do anything to make her hate me so much!

ugh whatever im gonna take a break from "love" for awhile.