Lots of changes - but what a great Coordinator

amylock

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Hi All!

I have seen a lot of people asking whether an Escape wedding is worth it, if you are treated "2nd class", etc. Very briefly, I will share my story so far...

My fiance and I started small and the wedding at Disney kind of grew. We have a lot of friends that wanted to come. We booked an Escape wedding for May 18th. We started planning and Yuri even surprised me for Christmas by getting me Cinderella's Coach!!!!! princess:

We pared our list down to just family and very close friends, created a menu for the Attic (buffet), etc. I ordered invitations. Then... my fiance's mom passed away (2 months ago on the 26th). Expected (not that soon), but still devastating.

I delayed sending invites for a week or so. As far as I knew, everyone was coming... Well, we are now a total party of 7 for the dessert party, wedding and reception lunch! We were going to be 12-18, but I had to make my son move out of the house (another story), and some of our original guests simply could not afford to come even though they said they could.

I am completely understand the financial situation - especially in this economy. Just disappointed.

The kink comes in that our venue for the DP is 10-20 people, and the minimum for a lunch reception at the Attic is $1,000.

You would THINK that our Wedding Coordinator would be upset, cancel stuff, etc. I have Danny Rogerson, and he has been absolutely amazing! IF you book a wedding and get Danny, consider yourself lucky - I mean it! :cheer2:

Danny took over when my original planner moved to Wishes weddings. I cannot say enough good things about him. He has been extraordinarily helpful regarding my gluten issues and is making sure I will have gluten free items at every event - including our wedding cake. :yay: I will have my own little cake that will look like the top of the 2 tier cake!

Regarding the 7 people issue, Danny has booked Bonsai Terrace to move us from Canada Overlook to save us money on the dessert party (the fee is less and the minimum as well). I am not certain of the view, but it looks pretty good. He was trying to find alternative to the Attic for our reception, but I really prefer the Attic because of the views and the venue itself. Captain's Grille would be an option but I don't like the lunch menu. So anyway, because our menu is $78 pp, he is checking to see if we can still do it there but the buffet would be more pp (volume issue). I told him we could be creative and buy more wine (you can take uncorked bottles with you) and Yuri and I could use them the rest of our honeymoon.

He has been so accommodating. I really can't speak for anyone else's experiences, but I am very happy with Danny! The wedding experience for me, so far, has been wonderful!

Amy :yay:
 
thanks for sharing - i’m so sorry about the difficulties you’ve faced but your reassurances will surely be like music to the ears of future disbrides! we’re from texas as well - got married almost a year and a half!

congrats on your happy day!
 
I'm sorry you've had so many changes and difficulties. <3 But I am so happy your Planner is awesome! I had Christy, and she was kind of kickbutt too. I'm happy to hear about good wedding planners--- I think they get a bad rap sometimes.
 
thanks for sharing - i’m so sorry about the difficulties you’ve faced but your reassurances will surely be like music to the ears of future disbrides! we’re from texas as well - got married almost a year and a half!

congrats on your happy day!

Thank you!!!! Honestly, I like Danny better than my original planner, but my original planner was transitioning so she may have been a bit too busy! I have had a great experience so far!

I'm sorry you've had so many changes and difficulties. <3 But I am so happy your Planner is awesome! I had Christy, and she was kind of kickbutt too. I'm happy to hear about good wedding planners--- I think they get a bad rap sometimes.

I guess it is kind of in the air as far as who you get! I am so happy with Danny! I can understand why some get a bad rap - my first wasn't nearly as responsive. But she was very busy at the time.

I am sure this will be wonderful! I told Yuri we should cancel the coach with only 5 guests, but he is insisting that I keep it! I feel like nearly $3k is a lot, and could be used for something else.
 

Just confirmed - Danny spoke to the chef and we can keep the Attic!!!! :cool1:
 
Yay! I'm glad you got things settled out.. Haven't heard from you in a while, but I knew you & Yuri were going through some stuff...

We have Danny too for our planner and he is AWESOME! When we were having our dilemma over our DP he was totally helpful in picking Bonsai Terrace for us after I inquired about a few venues. He is truly helpful & so glad you have him because I've had nothing but good experiences with him! I always look forward to our phone conversations. So glad you like him :goodvibes I couldn't recommend him enough!
 
Yay! I'm glad you got things settled out.. Haven't heard from you in a while, but I knew you & Yuri were going through some stuff...

We have Danny too for our planner and he is AWESOME! When we were having our dilemma over our DP he was totally helpful in picking Bonsai Terrace for us after I inquired about a few venues. He is truly helpful & so glad you have him because I've had nothing but good experiences with him! I always look forward to our phone conversations. So glad you like him :goodvibes I couldn't recommend him enough!

Awwww thanks! It has been rough- Yuri had to leave his job to help his dad with his cancer treatments. We only see each other on weekends- and that is not likely to change after the wedding. In fact, after his dad leaves Disney, the 5 days will be the most solo time we have had together since february!

Wow- just over a week until your wedding!!! :cheer2:
 












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