I've joined the Biggest Loser Challenge at our gym with my husband. It's created accountability and a support system with competition. It's gotten the ball rolling ! We paid a certain amount of money and if we lose a pound or more a week you get 5 bucks back, after 8 weeks you have the potential to make money on this. Even if your gym does this or not, you could do this with a friend. Create a "pot of gold" with a certain amount, set a goal amount and a weigh in day. At the end of it use that money on yourself (non food related) like a pedicure or outfit. Not only are you working for your body to improve, you work to get your money back and to be able to treat yourself when you reach your goal.
And in journaling what i was eating, i've been able to create a diet that works in the long run. Being a busy mom I created a list of foods easy to make or fast that are under 200 calories such as a power protein yogurt, oatmeal with fruit, or apple with pb etc. and I have 6 "meals" with a 2-3 hour spread in between so I stay at a diet deficit calorie mark, have a balance of foods, and don't have to think about what I'm going to have. After 4 weeks, I'm finding that when i have a larger meal on the weekend I can't even finish it, it doesn't take as much to satisfy me as it used to take. I know it may be a long road but I'm excited to see where i will be come vacation time.