Hello, we cruise in 1 year but leave for a month in Mexico in February...I have 50 lbs. to lose and just don't know where to start, I have a husband that can eat anything and everything and look amazing, but then again he works 17 hour days...I am a SAHM and a homeschooling mom, so I am either seated a lot or in the car. I joined the Y recently and am too scared to go into the gym. WE go 3 times a week and we go into the pool or the kids go into the kids gym, but I just am afraid everyone will stare and point or something equally ridiculous that I know makes ZERO sense...