Looking For Control Freaks & Worry Warts too........

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My shoulder is miraculously better. I know I shouldn’t have said that out loud but it is so weird because all of a sudden it went from bad to worse to almost gone! Isn’t that crazy! Plus, I have been drug free. No Alieve, Advil, Tylenol PM or anything!

I hope evryone is doing good.

Lisa, I hope you are feeling better.

FromScratchMom...ARE YOU HOME YET? WE MISS YOU!

Pam....WOW! Your trip is here baby! I can't believe you are leaving soon. Listen, I am sure you are set! You seem very organized!


Maureen
..It's so funny that now that I know you work with "drugs" I think about you all the time. I'm like "maybe I'll ask Tink about this" or "I wonder what Tink would think of this drug" I am nuts! I know this!
Not to make you panic or anythgng but did you say you HADN'T made any ADR's yet?????
Flying Baby B...Where ya going on Friday!?

STILL glad I have you guys!
 
I'm glad to have you guys to talk to. Sorry everyone is so stressed. I didn't make any ADR's yet and I'm hoping maybe you guys have some good ideas on where to eat. I would like to try Ohana, France, & maybe Crystal Palace or Chef Mickey's. There are many others I'd like to try but those are at the top of my list right now. The castle seems like it would be fun but I don't know if DD would care yet. I would love to hear what you guys think.
 

Debbie - I like your new sig picture. It's funny what you said about Maureen being a pharmacist and having ques. for her. My DH's dad is a pharmacist also. People ask me ques. to ask him all the time. That's what friends are for. We are all there for each other.
 
Pam, I can't believe you are leaving in 3 days! How are you hanging in there?

Lisa, we always do a ton of ADR's so ask me anything. Your DD would probably appreciate the Princess meal in Epcot (Norway) more because there are more princesses at it. Eating any meal in the castle is incredible for the kids and adults! Not as much character oriented but you are in the castle and Cinderella is there for dinner. More princesses are there for breakfast but then you should try and get one of the first seatings. In fact if you do get one of the first seatings you actually get to get in the magic kingdom before everyone else. That’s where I took a bunch of fab pix with no crowds in them. Are you at the 180 days yet? Probably, right.
Seriously, ask me anything!

TinkLvr
…where are you???

Hi everyone else!
:wave:

It’s Christmas crunch time!
 
I think the 180 day mark was around Nov. 12 or so. That is why I didn't know about res. for the castle. I have never done ADR's and I am nervous w/the napping and possible crabbiness that I will make adr's for the wrong times. What did you find worked out best? Mornings, evenings, or lunch?
DD & I are feeling a lot better. Just a little stomach ache from being sick.
 
Hello everyone!! :wave: :wave: :wave:

I am happy to say that I all I left to do is laundry and pack! :woohoo: MIL is coming to pick up our "pooch" (Chloe) tomorrow. We'll miss her. I got everything done I needed to. Never thought I'd get it done though!

On Xmas day, I have an 11:30am ADR for Le Cellier. (We're just going to have soup/salad) and then we were going over to MGM and do most of the day there and have ADRs for 5:30 at MM (don't know if this place is good..never been there). Now I am wondering:

1. Should we cxl Le Cellier and just go to MGM and eat CS for lunch so we have more time for attractions? OR

2. Should I keep Le Cellier (LOVE that cheese soup!) and try to get a different MGM restaurant?


Debbie, I like your new siggy! It's cute. You are so lucky to have a great mom! I get kind of bummed around this time. I miss my parents. Just wish I could give them a big hug and say Merry Christmas!! When's your next trip? You know, I really wish they'd put a DVC resort on the monorail!! (Or at least really close to it)

Tinklvr, Your trip will be here before you know it. I've been in late Jan. and also early Feb. before and what I love about that time is it seems like a "go with the flow" time. Not too crowded and great weather. We were supposed to go late Jan. but since my older DD is off for Xmas we just decided to go then. You must be pretty busy...try not to stress too much...breathe, girl, breathe!!! :)

Disneyohana:

Hey there! Crystal Palace is pretty good. I've never been ther for breakfast, but have for lunch and dinner. Lunch & Dinner are pretty much the same. There may be 1-2 things different, but it's like $5 cheaper pp if you go at lunch. Winnie & friends are there for all 3 meals. Your DD will love it!

The castle is awesome..just being in it. I just got the feeling that I was part of the Cinderella movie or something. Or just a big part of WDW. The castle has always been the huge focal point of WDW (IMO) and being able to go in there was so neat. We did breakfast and that was 3 yrs ago. DD was 7 at the time and she loved it. My other DD will be 4 on our trip next year and I think we'll take her. Last summer we did the Princess Breakfast at Norway..nice, but not the same. Your DD will like it. I decided to wait until McKenna was 4 or 5 to do the castle breakfast..so maybe she'll remember it.

As far as scheduling ADRs and times...I decided what parks we'd be in or doing that day. Then, I would take her normal eating time and schedule close to that. We did a few buffets (no waiting for it to be cooked). I also scheduled around naps. I'd let her have a good nap one day at the room and the next day she'd take a wuick snooze in the stroller. As long as DD was feed on time and had a good night sleep or some sort of nap we were good to go and had no tantrums at all. Lunch and evenings were good. DD nevers eats to much of breakfast.

Sorry to hear you were feeling sick. Hope you're doing better!

Hello, flying B.

Toodles everyone! We're leaving first thing Saturday a.m. and driving down straight I-95 to I-4. We live like 6 miles from I-95. Hopefully, the weather won't be too bad or the traffic either! We're staying at Disney's Hilton Head resort for a night on the way back to see what it's like and well..we needed a stop over anyway.

I hope everyone has a wonderful and joyous and SAFE holiday! Happy Holidays!!!

Pam
 
Hey...I have been very busy yesterday and today finishing up shopping. I have been to the mall 3 times in 2 days, and the babies (6 and 18 mos) were with me (and my sister, thank God!) for 2 of the trips. I have to say, they were ANGELS. I got so much done, now I just have stockings stuffers to get and cleaning and cooking. I am working all day tomorrow, but I am off all weekend.

Pam...have a great trip. I would keep the Le Cellier ADR...you can't beat pretzel bread and cheese soup :thumbsup2 I have never been to WDW during a major holiday, but from what I have read, it is close to impossible to ride a lot of attractions, so maybe just take in the atmosphere on Christmas Day and save the rides for the other days. You are right about Jan. This is our 3rd trip in Jan and we love it during that time. The crowds are light and I know that I most likely won't have a problem getting most of the ADRs I want if I call next week.

Lisa...I know what you mean about it being difficult to schedule ADRs around naps and crankiness. I completely agree with Pam. Go with a couple of character buffets..you can eat at your own pace and your dd will be entertained. Lunch at Crystal Palace is great. I like Ohanas (we do it for breakfast), but we have had a few problems with service there. I had to wait so long for Mickey last time, and then he skipped our table! We did Princess Breakfast at Norway and dd loved it. Just go with the flow..if dd is cranky or overly tired, you may have to skip an ADR or two, but that really is no big deal. Is your FIL a retail pharmacist? It is so stressful, I don't know how much longer I can do it.

Debbie...glad to hear that your shoulder is feeling better. Feel free to ask me drug questions? I am used to answering all my families medical type questions. It is so nice to help people and feel appreciated. Sometimes at work, that doesn't happen. On Tues night, a customer told me I was stupid and cursed me out b/c I wouldn't give her any Xanax when her rx had no refills. She then called the store at least 20 times in 2 hours. :crazy: I can't wait till the holidays are over and people go back to a somewhat normal state.

Hi flying baby and from scratch mom.

I probably won't be on till after Christmas, so Merry Christmas to all!
 
Just a quick........
Merry Christmas!
in case I don't talk to you guys again because you are all so busy! I'll be back though. The computer is my excuse to not do what I need to get done. Today when I was on the computer my DD4 shredded packing popcorn into millions of pieces and was throwing it in the air to make snow! :furious: Yeah, I know...serves me right!

TinkLvr..How old are your kids???? Did you say 6 months and 18 months???? Are you a saint? I’m glad you are still with our thread. It’s nice talking with you.

Lisa… they are right about the buffets (being good that is) and if you miss one or two of your ADRs it's no biggie. You'll probably make someone’s day because they will get in at the last minute! Did you mention Chef Mickey? It’s hard to get in but lots of fun (buffet). My DD loves the Japanese steak house (EPCOT) too because the cooking at the table entertains her. GF has a buffet with Cinderella and Prince Charming. Have you thought about the Luau at Poly? That was fun! I swear we have done almost every single character meal or show possible at one time or another. We have never done Mickey’s backyard barbeque and we had an ADR but took a pass on the Chip & Dale one at Epcot.

Pam….
I bet you miss your parents. :guilty: Holidays have to be hard. My Mom said she will never get over her parents being gone either. They have been gone 20 years. I miss them too. I lived in the same house with them like my set up now.
Hey BTW.. Can I go with you on your trip????
Do you know anyone who can beam me there at the same time as you? Come on! I don’t know if you will see this but just make the ADR’s and like we told Lisa, if you get there you get there. If you don’t feel like it then take a pass.
Love ya! Have a great time!!!!! (In case you don't return I will just keep repeating this to you)

Hey, I subscribed to this thread where people post a pic every day. It will really get you excited about your trip if you go look at the beautiful shots people post each day. I even post stuff for the fun of it too! Here it is….
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=16059040#post16059040
 
Hey, Debbie...sorry, I don't know anyone who can beam :teleport: you in :confused3 , but maybe George Jetson can use his Turbo Blaster 680 to zoom you on over. :rotfl: But if not...I'll be thinking of everyone when we are enjoying our Ghirardelli sundaes. :p

I start my diet back up again Jan. 1st. Seems I put on a few lbs I didn't exactly plan on gaining back. (Bad Dining Plan, Bad Dining Plan! -Yeah and that was back in July sooo)

Thanks for that link!!! It's so neat! You know, maybe we should just email each other because everyone is pretty much reading this.

Tink....my goodness..you ARE a saint. Two little ones not that far apart in age AND a pharmacist? You must work some long hours. There is a shortage in our area for pharmacists so they are extremely busy. I agree that sometimes people just aren't friendly. I've seen our reg. pharmacist chewed out a few times because the person didn't understand or it was something the Dr. did or whatever.

Disneyohana: Chef Mickey's is really fun. Your DD should love it! I've had O'hana for breakfast and it's not bad..they do a cute conga line. Characters do take awhile to come around. Can't comment of France restaurant. I hate French food. Kona Cafe is really good for both breakfast and dinner.


Take care everyone!
 
My children are 3, 18 mos and 6 months. My son and daughter are 11 1/2 months apart. Grace was our little surprise. I sometimes don't know how I do it. I only have to work 3 days a week, but 2 of the days are 13+ hours. Its hard to work the long days, but it gives me more days off with the kids. Plus, my father-in-law watches them while I work so I don't work about them at all. Sometimes, I think they have more fun with him because he can devote his entire day to them. When I am home, I am always trying to get a million things done. (Who isn't?) All in all, I really do like my job. I love getting to interact with so many people and I feel like I can make a difference.

Pam :grouphug: I know what you mean about missing your parents around the holidays. For some reason, this year is particularly hard for me. My mom loved Christmas and she loved her grandkids. There have been six new grandkids born in the last 3 years and she would have been so excited to see them all at Christmas. At least I have my sisters and brother...we are always telling funny stories about my mom to keep her memory around. I still so have my dad, but he lives in FL, so he is not around.

I have said this before, but I am so glad I found this thread. It is so nice to have others to talk to who completely understand the craziness of worrying and planning...it takes over your life. I think it is great that we can reassure each other when we are stressed.

Debbie..I was thinking the same thing about my last post being my last before Christmas. I use the computer to procrastinate, too! That is actually how I found you guys...I was putting off packing for my Nov trip! My daughter has gotten into packing peanuts, too...it is not a pretty sight or an easy mess to clean up.
 
There's a rumor floating around that the disboards will be closed down after 5 tomorrow! So EVERYONE who joins us here have a VERY Merry Christmas if this happens and we can't talk again! Pam you have a great trip and FromScratchMom welcome home!
 
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I'll miss you guys!
 
Hello, all! We are home from our trip and recuperating nicely. I'll cut and paste most of a small trip report of sorts that I wrote for a different forum. Its actually rather long but not as long as some of the detailed accounts that go day by day as some folks do in writing trip reports... I was going to write separate trip reports for different audiences, but I'm so zombie like right now as I'm recovering from my trip and my illness that it took me forever to write just one and so I want to share it with y'all as well. (And there is a surprising thing in there for my fellow worry worts and control freaks.) Maybe after the fact I'll write something different for the families forum. So here it is:

We're back and we had a wonderful time! Which may sound strange considering I was very very sick on Thursday and Friday. But it turns out being sick at Disney is still better then being sick at home, plus I was able to tour the parks the other days which was amazing at every turn. I had gone to Epcot on Thursday morning but went down hill fast after about 11am. I ended up leaving around 1pm and took Liese back with me. She rested and watched cartoons while I napped. I tried to get in a couple of morning hours of touring again on Friday (MGM), but it about killed me and then I missed Mickey's Very Merry Christmas Party at the Magic Kingdom that night. The rest of the trip I was OK to tour all day each day, but at the same time, not exactly in good health.

I had been to Disney several times when I was younger, always for just one day at a time and usually to the Magic Kingdom (once to Epcot). And I have to say that it just gets better and better. It far surpassed my expectations for this trip. The kids had a great time every single day with hardly any drama --- only one sad crying spell from Gwyn that only lasted a few minutes and only one rather longish cry from Liese from getting over tired at the end of our first day. After Liese got calmed down and got some good food into her, Gwyn basically told me that she understood how Liese felt. Then she kind of laughed and shrugged and said that "now" she understood why I kept making them walk on the treadmill, her legs felt "like jelly".

I had one little spell too. Our first day there DH got cranky about a few things before we even got in the park and was a misery to me until I decided that we would have to split up and tour separately. After Alec and I had our own little bit of fun riding Space Mountain twice in a row with hardly any waiting we got back together with DH and the girls who wanted to stay together as a family and did pretty well with them. Later on I told DH that if we ever get to go back, he would have to plan the next trip. [I know, my fellow worriers and control freaks are aghast. But I probably already mentioned, early on, that its only my trip to Disney that really bring out the controller and the planner in me. Normally my main struggle is with worrying. I've realized that I can give it up, if I work at it, better than I can cope with the non-planner blaming me for my efforts while he did nothing to prepare or plan. And once I manage to give it up and force him to plan it, I can probably cope with whatever I agree with or disagree with that he plans a lot better than he can cope with what I planned (even though I was right and he was wrong about the wisdom of my plan ;) )] I do not like being the one responsible when he doesn't like the plan. Anyway, I think he really ended up having just as much fun as the rest of us during most of the trip and he told me several times that he was really glad that I had "practically forced" him into a Disney trip and that he thought I did an awesome job planning it. [Now he'll have to do the work and end up realizing that my plans were good even on day one and that my thoughts on behaving nicely and especially not fussing at the person who put all the work in were right!]

And now that I've told the only negatives I have to repeat that over-all the whole trip was fantastic! Even with illness and everything words can't express how glad I am that we went.

Now, I have to make a recommendation here. The Dining plan is really wonderful and an amazing value. I mainly wanted to get it so that we wouldn't be faced with thinking over our budget at every restaurant choice and every menu. Getting the dining plan and making advance reservations seemed like the best way to go. Boy was it ever! I had no idea just what a great value it would turn out to be. If any of you ever buy a Disney package you HAVE to add on the dining plan! (And Disney packages at the value resorts are really a pretty good deal anyway. We really liked our "family suite" at the All-Star Music. It met our needs perfectly and really impressed us especially considering the good price.) My son couldn't get over telling us how great our dinner at Ohana was on the first night and he was right; it was worth every bit of his rave reviews. Then several of the other restaurants inspired me to be nearly as impressed as I was with Ohana rather than let down after having the best for our first meal.

... We ended up at MGM again on our day that I hadn't planned out minute by minute, which was DH's and Gwyneth's top choice for that day. And we gave Alec the independence to go where he wanted and he did Animal Kingdom and Epcot that day. He told me later that 4 days previous someone had set a new record by riding Kali River Rapids 37 times in a row and he had wanted to break it but he didn't make it. He only rode it 18 times in a row! His clothes were still not dried out when we had to start packing on Tuesday night. (a cool aside about our accomodations: there were 2 bathrooms in our "family suite" and both tubs had a laundry line that you could pull across to hang wet things! After we discovered Alec's heap of wet clothes and hung them they were close enough to dry to be packed by Wednesday morning!)

Speaking of packing... I was about brain dead by then and luckily DH came to the rescue and handled it. He really took over and made our exit easy on me. On a trip like that you sort of suffer from a little bit of diminished capacity, a little more and more with each passing day, or so it seemed. And we were both feeling it on the way home on Tuesday. Maybe adrenaline keeps you from realizing it until you actually leave Walt Disney World Property. At the airport, we had to keep telling the kids that we were feeling frayed and that they just had to try to understand and calm down for us. DH told me that he wanted to try to go back again, but if we planned for the same length of stay we'd be just as frayed (and we both knew we were a little too frayed at that point). We settled on the idea of either taking a shorter trip or taking a longer one with a couple of rest days built in. For example on this trip we went to church on Sunday morning, ate lunch at Subway and then went to Animal Kingdom until 7pm. Then we capped that off with DH and Liese driving our friend Amy back to Tampa and me and Alec and Gwyn going to see Animal Kingdom Lodge and view the savannah with the night vision goggles and eat at their counter service restaurant, Mara. (The food there was great by the way.) But if we get to go back in some future year, we'll plan on just church followed by pool time and naps or maybe walks or putt-putt on Sunday.

Incidentally, I had looked up some Church of Christ congregations in the Orlando area and ended up thinking that I didn't know anyone living in the area at the time and didn't know anything specific about any of the congregations so I just picked one that would allow us to get back to WDW early in the day compared to the others. But when we got there I turned my head to glance around and saw someone that I knew from when I was a teenager in Atlanta, then the preacher mentioned the man by name while he was talking about joint work teaching a class with him. So I thought, I guess they live here now. After church I got to speak with them and catch up, which was really nice. It turned out that they were just visiting their son, (same name as dad) and that he and his new wife lived there now. I babysat their son when I was a teen and thought it was pretty cool to see him all grown up and responsible! And that isn't even all. I also happened to pick up one of their church bulletins and looked down and saw a name I recognized on that too. It was a man that grew up with my dad in Texas and now lives in Orlando and is an elder at that congregation! I mentioned all of this too DH. After church while I was chatting with the one family that guy came up and introduced himself to DH. DH mentioned that he knew a connection with the guy through his father-in-law and then that guy came up and introduced himself to me and told me all about staying at our house in Virginia once when I was very young and he had come there to preach a gospel meeting. Then he also told me a story about when he was a teenager and had been in a bad accident (he was a pedestrian hit by a bus) how my grandfather who had worked for his father at a filling station he owned had been driving the car to bring his dad to the scene of the accident and then rushed him to the hospital. I never knew my father's father, but it was very cool to talk to this guy. So the whole time was like old home week and, of course, we did not leave and get to Animal Kingdom early in the day. But the man who knew my dad asked for me to give his number to my dad and ask him to get in touch and the mom from Atlanta asked after my mother and wanted her number and address to contact her. And needless to say, I was very glad to have visited that particular congregation! It's a small world after all, isn't it. (yes, I know I'm very corny! :sunny: )
 
Debbie, I just saw your dear children (and a little bit of you) in photos over on the picture of the day thread! :wizard:

Beautiful! Just Beautiful!
 
TBGOES2DISNEY said:
Oh, you're definitely not alone! I like to plan a lot, not every detail, but a lot! I've found that our family trips work out better this way. I spent a lot of time planning our ADRs and researching restaurants for our trip last month. I was going to start making plans for the parks, scheduling days, looking at maps, etc., but my husband said I was going to ruin the trip by overscheduling it! I can't believe he said that when we've been places with and without planning, and the planned trips always went better. He also said I wouldn't have any surprises (first trip to Disney ever for all of us).

Well, I learned my lesson! Next time, I follow my obsessive compulsive instincts! :goodvibes We ran around to ADRS, park hopped like crazy, didn't have time to swim, wandered around aimlessly, and completely exhausted ourselves! We still had a great time, but believe me, next time, our trip will be better planned so we can relax more and enjoy everything!

Good luck with your trip planning! :cheer2:

OMG you and your DH are just like me and mine! SCARY. I just told him last night that I was freaking out (our trip is about 32 days away) and he said what you wrote, almost verbatim. And I said, if I didn't freak out and go crazy on planning, we would just get there and wander around like idiots and waste our time and money. Sound familiar? So I'm laughing LOL majorly. I just found these boards the other day, and now I'm going to be a fixture until we leave for the airport. Thanks for proving me correct! :love:
 
Wow, everyone's been on here lately. Nice that so many of us come back here to chat.
Fromscratchmom, Sorry you were sick. I have been sick w/a cold and the stomach flu and I am so glad that is over. Well the cold is still lingering a little. Anyway, glad you were able to enjoy your trip. How old are your kids again. I forget w/all the people here. By the way, I have never planned my Disney vac. much. We just ran around wherever we felt like at that moment and we always had a blast. But now I want to try restaurants and get DD on some good rides so I have to plan more.
Pam - Thanks for the advice on the buffets and scheduling. Sorry your sad about your parents. It has to be hard. I miss my grandpa more every year since he passed. Especially on Christmas Eve which is when we celebrate w/my mom's family.
Tink - I don't know how you can handle three little ones. I only have one 2 yr old but she can be a handful. When I have my nephews w/us, 6 & 8, she actually has more fun of course which does help, but getting in and out of the car, strollers, watching for cars, you are a saint. Thanks for the advice on the restaurant thing. I think we will do buffets. I didn't know you could cancel that close to your adr but that is good in case we make too many and get overtired. Glad to hear you've had good experiences w/your kids at Disney. Can't wait for my trip. My FIL works for Dominicks food store pharmacy. He used to work at a hospital nearby and got paid a lot less, and he was head of the department. Now he does work weird hours though. I don't think he enjoys that part as much. Otherwise, he seems happier there.
Debbie - I was thinking about going to the Luau instead of Ohana. We already are going to Kona Cafe at Polynesian and won't have a rental car so I didn't know which would be better between Ohana or Luau. I thought DD might enjoy the games at Ohana and I would enjoy the Luau. What do you think? When the dis boards are up again I may ask more questions. Please ignore me if I already asked them. I have never been so confused about what I already talked about to people. What a difference children do make in our lives. Oh, thanks for the link. I haven't had a chance to look at it yet but I'm going to do that now.
Well, I'll miss you guys. Hope you all have a great Christmas.
 
disneyohana said:
Fromscratchmom...How old are your kids again?

My girls are 6 1/2 and 9 and my son is 15. He is now wanting to shovel snow and save money so that he can buy a sword at the gift shop in the castle on our next trip.

It is cracking me up that my whole family is talking about our next trip already. None of them believed that it would be as good as I kept saying it would be. ;)

Are us moms always right or what?! :rolleyes1
 
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