I've lived in Albuquerque for over 35 years -- a child transplant from Wisconsin.
The weather here is phenomenal where the sun shines over 300 days a year. We had temps in the 60's today. We get all 4 seasons, but our winters are relatively mild (although we can get a whopper storm once in a blue moon), but plenty of snow in the mountains to play and ski in. We have very low humidity, so the hot temps don't feel nearly has hot as they do in places where it's humid. The weather downfall is the dryness and winds in the spring which leads to forest fires. That's the only natural disaster we experience here.
The food is some of the best you'll ever find if you like New Mexican fare. We live and die by our chile. You can get green chile on anything here from hamburgers to scrambled eggs. The red chile makes a great gravy on anything, too! Our state colors are "Christmas" for the red & green chile.
Our mountains are spectacular to look at every day. Very majestic! And the sunsets are amazing which cast a purple hue on the Sandia Mountains. "Sandia" means "watermelon" in Spanish which is the color of the mountains at sunset.
Albuquerque is a very culturally diverse city that swings more liberal on politics, although we are considered a "swing state" and can go either way at times.
Albuquerque was rated #1 in Parkland in 2011 among 100 cities.
We number 1 or number 2 in the ratings for the lowest gas in the US. It fluctuates. Right now we are #2.
Albuquerque is the official hot air balloon capital of the world and home of the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta which is held every October. Google it. You will be amazed and even more amazed when you are driving to work and have hundreds of hot air balloons floating over your head each morning.
The bad:
There are bad pockets of the city. Stay away from the south valley, areas along Central Ave, and the Southeast Heights except for the Nob Hill area. The northwest side (referred to as "the west side) is newer, but less green. I don't know your price range for homes, but the most expensive are in the far northeast heights. You can get more bang for your buck with a nice newer home in Ventana Ranch which is a community on the west side. A lot will depend on your DH's work location. He won't want to travel east across the Rio Grande during the am rush hour and west back across during the pm rush hours. If he drives during non-rush hours he'll be fine.
The spring winds can be quite awful. Spring is my least favorite season which starts in mid to late February.
PM me if you have specific questions. I also recommend you check out the city-data forum for Albuquerque. Lots of good info here:
http://www.city-data.com/forum/albuquerque/