Hi everyone,
We just rented a minivan for our drive to HH. We rented a van because ours has too many miles on it and we are just worried that it won't make it. This will be our first time driving as a family for any long distance.

I'm just a little worried because it will be me, DH, DD 15, DS 12. My parents are coming too but they are driving in a seperate care (lucky them). We are driving from Mass and it is an estimated 16 hour drive. We are planning to stop and stay over night somewhere on the NC/SC line. We are due to arrive at HH on Sun June 22nd. I am looking at this as an adventure. I am going to pack a cooler so we don't have to stop for food, the kids will have their ipods, game boys ect., and I will have my book. DH and I will split the driving. Here's the problem. He does everything "COMANDO" style. I'm afraid he will be a giant ball of stress if we hit any traffic AT ALL. The plan is to leave at 4am on Sat and drive straight thru (bathroom breaks of course) until we hit our overnight destination. We shouldn't hit a lot of traffic on a Sat, right? I've heard that getting thru NY & DC are the worst and then it should be smooth sailing. Anyone ever drive from Mass? Does our time frame plan sound good? Which states have the strictest penalties for throwing your husband out the window and leaving him on the side of the road?