So I had a bit of a break through today.... Some nice DISer on another thread suggested that just call T-Rex directly to try and change my reservation. I don't know WHY I didn't think of this on my own....but after almost 2 weeks of checking the Disney Reservations site 6 to 7 times a day with no luck, I decided to call today. The girl I spoke to was able to get us on the list for a 5pm ressie, and she told me to just cancel the other reservation through Disney since I made it with them.
The only thing that freaks me out is that I don't get a confirmation number booking directly through T-Rex.
So while I was defacing my Passporter with more white out

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I decided to try and condense paperwork. I had 3 or 4 confirmation emails from Disney stuffed in there, and two copies of my brothers flight information. When I compared his flight info to ours, I realized there was a discrepancy with the seat numbers.
So I logged onto the JetBlue website and found that they actually changed the type of plane we'll be flying on so instead of sitting 2 to a row, we now sit 3 to row and the three of us will all be next to each other. I printed the updated itineraries and replaced the old ones. My Passporter (white out blotches aside) is now nice and organized.
I also added in the order of the bus stops at CSR because I'll never remember once we get there. It's nice because you can actually use the park buses to get from your room to El Centro, and then use a DTD bus to get from El Centro back to the room. Since I canceled our ADR at Maya Grill, we probably won't need to use the bus system for this purpose very often, but it's nice to know the process just in case. Lumar states he "is a believer in 'not wasting time' and it would be easier to just walk" but I imagine that by day 3 of our trip, his feet will be hurting so badly from all the walking that he'll be grateful for the bus.
So I'm about to go try and get some work done on the WDW 2009 Scrapbook. I'm about to finish Epcot but I still have most of AK & DHS to do, and I haven't even touched MK yet.... So before I go, here's a flashback picture for you. This is me, Lumar, Mike, and Lumar's brother Robby, back in May 2006. This is one of my favorites