I do take lightly the card, if you knew my situation in whole, you would not need to doubt my sincerity. But like all things there are those out there who would try to take advantage. I do not even say I would actually use the card, if the lines are not to bad, then I will try to brave the lines. I would never give it to anyone in my group and have them go on with out me. First off you should know, I will not be in the lines for any of the coasters, the Kali River ride, the Tot or even Star Wars as those we know my back will not tolerate. Even the Safari ride give it to much of a jolt, but I do it because it is one of my favs and I would be so disappointed. Most times it will be just my mother (age 77) and myself. My daughter and her friend will most likely just meeting up with us for meals and those only ADR's. As long as a line is moving briskly and I do not have to stand in one place to long, I can function with less pain. But, any line that is at a dead stop for to long, my right leg goes numb and I can not walk. This happens to me in the grocery line all the time, but there I have the cart to use until I can get my right leg functioning again. In Dec, I had my hubby to lean on, I will not have him on my next trip. I simply can not describe the constant pain and how much that pain increases when I am standing in one place for to long. This is all due to first a back injury that required two surgeries, then two stokes, one year apart, all which affected my right leg and to some extent my right arm. Should I ever fall, I simply can not get up, I have severe decreased strength in the right side, but manage to walk carefully, at first you will not even notice the slight limp, but after walking for any distance, lets say after about 15 minutes this limp will become more pronounced, until it is downright silly looking. After years of this I have learned that I must take short cuts where I can, conserve my energy as best I can so I can function, and yes we thought about a wheelchair, but mentally I am not ready to go there. I insist I will do this, and pardon me if due to my physical limitations I might ask for a little consideration, but as I have tried to explain, I think I have a real reason and I would never abuse the privelidge.
Again, I certainly can imagine how some would take advantage, let me assure you I am not one of those, and before even planning this trip I had to ask my 77 yr old mother did she think she would be able to help me on this trip. Then of course I do have my daughter who will be 21 at the time and she will be close enough at had to help too.
Only yesterday the family went to a Dragons Baseball game, we only had lawn tickets, so stupid me I decided I would go and sit on the lawn. (first time to go with the kids to a pro baseball game) Big mistake, even with my hubby and daughters help it took me several attempts to get to a standing position, and today as well as during the game, the pain is undescribable to most. My right leg kept going numb no matter what position I took and I simply had no use of it to get up. This was not easy, I am surprised my hubby had the strength to help me, sort of dead weight. But then, he delivers furniture for a living so perhaps he is used to heavy dead weight.
I digress, trust me, I will not be the one to take advantage, just trying to live a somewhat normal life.