I'm always that one who tells them that there's a line, and it's back there. If you didn't pass me going out of the line with your little one to go to the rest room, then don't think that you can go past me with a little one using the fake excuse that the little one had to go and you're just catching up. Unless the bathroom was in Nebraska, the answer is no, and yes, that does make me the line police.
In the case where you have to leave a line and rejoin your family, you are welcome to, and shouldn't get yelled at, in the case where a little needs to go before getting in line, then the family waits until the little has gone and gets in line. Getting in line and then wanting to catch up after the little has gone is, in fact, cutting the line, and isn't the same thing at all. Typically, parents don't have one group join the line and another go to the bathroom then cut the rest of the line, they all join the line together.
As for traffic, those guys are the ones who cause gridlock, and they get tickets!
For me it's pretty simple. If you were never in line to being with, then joining your group later is in fact line cutting.
seriously. With two small kids, one with special needs, we have always managed to do this. So the only people inconvenienced is my family as we wait for each other. Common courtesy.Why is it so difficult for some families to take care of bathroom needs and then get on line all at the same time? Of course, if you do this and your toddler suddenly has to go again, most people won't consider it cutting if you leave the line you are already on and then return promptly. If you were never on the line in the first place, it is cutting and rude, even if the rest of your family got on line earlier. One person cutting doesn't make a lot of difference but humans often get into that herd mentality so when they see one person doing something they want to do the same. Those obnoxious and large groups mentioned by others that do this are a prime example. My family once had to wait for the next Mermaid show because two people cut in front of us to join their family (bragging how much they liked the ride they were just on). How was that fair?