life sucks....my husband just passed away.

[themudd4]

You are in our thoughts, hearts, and prayers. May God bring you through this.

 

[jake&samsmom]

God bless you and your entire family.

 

[Jengonz1982]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've never experienced a loss like that so I can't imagine what you're currently going through,but I am sure that you will get through this in time. I'll say a prayer for you tonight for you and your children to have some peace soon.

 

[natenapril]

I am sorry for your loss I cannot imagine the pain you are in and only can pray for you

 

[hugabearjo]

I will be praying for your continued strength and for that of your little girls.

 

[DISNEYmooner2008]

I have no words of wisdom to offer, I have nothing to try to make you feel better, and I can't relate to your situation. All I can offer is that I am truly sorry for your great loss. I can only begin to imagine what you and your little one's are going through right now. Judging by your post I assume you are a believer. I know this is comforting you during this hard time. Here are a few verses that were shared with me when my grandfather passed away. I know that's no where near as terrible of a thing as having your husband pass away, but these verses did bring some comfort to me. Always remember that while it doesn't always feel this way, God does promise to never give you more than you are capable of handling. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know God will give you the strength to make it through this difficult time.

Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters ... they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. For I am the Lord your God" (Isaiah 43:1-3).

I will never fail you nor forsake you. (Heb. 13:5)

God, who shows you his kindness and who has called you through Christ Jesus to his eternal glory, will restore you, strengthen you, make you strong, and support you as you suffer for a little while. (I Peter 5.-10)

 

[pooh'smate]

Praying for you and your precious girls.

 

[Ning Ning]

I am so sorry for your loss. My father died April 17 of last year and sometimes the pain is still so fresh. Eventually, you will be able to believe that your husband is in God's loving embrace and he will always watch over and take care of you and the girls. Remember - "... love never dies" and his love will be with all of you forever.

Ingrid

 

[3happydancers]

So So sorry for your loss. I can honestly say that I don't know what you are going through, but I do know how lost I would be without my spouse. Truely, I am lost for words. I can pass on what one woman did that I work with. She too is young with small children. A year ago they took their first trip ever to Disney where her husband suddenly passed the day after they arrived. She has sought out grief counseling for her children and herself and it seems to have at least help her to take things one day at a time.

Please feel free to PM me anytime even if it's just to ramble on. I can be a good listener.

 

[5 for WDW]

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your girls are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[laginog001]

I wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss and that you and your little girls are in my prayers. My brother-in-law lost his wife almost 3 years ago at age 25 from leukemia. Their boys were 4, 2, & 9 months old. They are now 7, 5, & 3. We have the boys almost every weekend while their Dad works. They still talk about their Mom fairly often, even the youngest acts like he remembers her....although we know he can't. Every time they see a star, they say "There's Mommy!" It's both touching and heartbreaking at the same time. My DH and I are taking all 3 boys to Disney World in June. Their Mom was a HUGE "Mickey" fan and I had promised her we would take them some day. Well...they're all old enough and the day has finally come. We will think about their Mommy a lot while we're there, I know. Just remember that your husband is still with you in spirit and will always watch over you and the girls. Time will help heal...but will pass very slowly for a while. God Bless you all.

 

[daisy2]

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.

 

[mom2girlsn1boy]

I'm so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers

 

[mommy-on-the-move]

You're all very much in my thoughts, I am truly sorry for your loss.

 

[kapica3]

Oh my gosh, I feel so sorry for you and your children. You poor, poor thing. My very good friend lost her husband suddenly and she was left with 3 little ones too! Its now four years later and they are doing incredibly well. It was an extreme shock at first, but you would be amazed at how strong you become when you really need to for your children. You WILL be alright.....eventually. Keep praying. We will pray for you and your family too.

 

[Charleyann]

We had just returned from a wonderful trip to wdw on April 12th. His 31st birthday was on the 13th and he passed away on the 16th. I am still in such complete shock and keep expecting him to walk in any minute. We have a 5yr precious little girl who keeps crying for daddy and an incredible 3yr old who doesn't understand why we won't help her find her daddy. My life has forever changed and I don't want to even breath. I do have a very strong faith and I know exactly where my very best friend is but it does not stop the pain. We had our entire life laid out and were even trying for our third baby. The thing that is the worst about this all is that the doctors tell me it was a 1 in a million chance that it should have happened to him. Which lets me know it was even more of a GOD thing but I am struggling with that right now. I am so jealous it was him and not me. I am so very blessed he took care of us so that I don't have to work and I can continue to homeschool our very fragile girls. BUT I DON'T EVEN WANT THE STUPID MONEY.....I just need him home with me.
Sorry for rambling....I have not even let myself truly break down yet...I am trying to remain strong for my girls.
We had just bought into DVC on this last trip and I had to call and cancel it. There are just too many memories there....

a very sad diser

If anyone has any experience with losing a spouse so young and especially has young kids please pm me. I am needing to talk to someone who can truly relate....thank you

My heart aches for what your family is going through!

 

[lisaross]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss! May god bless you and your girls. I urge you to go and talk to someone who has gone through a loss like yours - perhaps a support group in your area? Maybe family therapy would be good in the near future for you and the girls!

Again, my prayers are with you.

Lisa

 

[Aliceacc]

My most sincere sympathies.

 

[KimAshton]

I am so sorry for your loss. (((HUGS)))

 

[Aliceacc]

Forgive me if this is off-the-wall:

Could you post on the fairy godmother list? I wonder if someone currently at WDW would take the time to send a postcard to each of your kids, expressing sympathy on their loss?

So many of the things we do to grieve are on an adult level-- I wonder if maybe this might brighten your kids' day for a short time?