Latest update: DD asked the boy from art class ( who coincidentaly is going to DD dream college for computer animation) and he said yes!

She is excited to be going with a friend that she can have fun with...she just up and asked if he would like to go to Prom together, he said, "when is it?", she said a month from today, and he said, "Sure, I'd love to" so there ya go. They have been talking a LOT based on the college...it is way out of our budget...(Ringling school of art in Sarasota) but one of the few that offers a competitive 4 year animation degree for getting a decent job. The boy is taking a 2 week art camp there this summer, so DD is drooling over that, but knows we just can't do it, but she is thrilled to know someone who can . He just landed Silver in the Scholastic awards, which is really great for portfolio, DD landed first in Upstate 8, so I am sure they can find enough to talk about for the 4 hours of Prom. Here's the kcker tho...he has not been to a HS dance...went to his Jr Hi ones, but DD thinks is pretty clueless as to the formality of Prom...I said to use her art/animation skills and show him the norm , that the main thing is to have fun but that there is a dress code per say...I just dropped her at work and she is on

. She did have another boy dshe would've asked if Art guy said no, but was really hoping it would work out thie way it did.
mamacatnv....here's my take on the expenses....since my DD TECHNICALLY did the asking ...( though I give her credit for saying "together" instead of "with me"..maybe he'll pay for his own ticket

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but my DD needs to expect to pay for both her and Art Guys tix..$130
The dinner is included in that, now the Limo runs $95 per hour, 3 hour minimum. 20% gratuity, totals $342...we have 10 kids...they are going to pay individually for the Limo, unless the boys WANT to cover for their girls, but since many are not "steady" it is not fair to expect it from all the guys, so for now, each will pay $35.
The boy covers the cost of his tux and the girls flowers. Here for Prom, Nosegays are the norm...the mini bouquet they hold...not wrist corsages. Guys get the usual Boutinniere ( sp?) Girls pay for their dress, hair, and guys flower. Our group wants to go to Great America the next day, if so, they will each pay their own addmittance to the park and their own food.
Basically, it's dutch...around here anyway...now seeing as how I have a son...if a girl asks him...I will have him cover the cost of the tickets for them both...that is just how I feel. He will at least offer...and certainly if he does the asking he will be buying the tickets. He will also offer to cover the limo...but the girl generally pays for the picture package if the guy is doing all of that. I do not know if my DD is going to get pictures at the Prom...she hates that sort of thing, so we will more than likely not have to worry about it, just take ones at the house.
I have to say...the kids are almost more excited about driving around in the Limo for 2 hours after Prom (to fulfill the 3 hour minimum) than the Prom itself!
I think Art Guy is in for a shock...and he is the oldest...no big brother or sister to help him out...DD is trying to figure out how to inform him of protocl while not being pushy or taking his choices away from him. I think they should hit the mall one day and just nose around the tux places...they both work a lot so, not sure, but I think it would be a good ice breaker of the situation. So...mamacatnv, and Sandy V., UPDATES! There's mine..hope all is well for you guys, and what's the poster idea?
Pam