Wait . . . so you made ADRs that you aren't planning on using? I'm assuming you have these ressies because you used such specific times.
There has been lots of discussion on the boards lately about people calling at their 180 day mark and getting nothing they wanted. If people are calling and "double booking" so to speak, that is a big contributor to the problem. It is really selfish for someone to call with the attitude, "Well, I'll just make all these ADRs so I know I'll have them, and just decided which one's I want later." What happens quite often is that people who do that never call to cancel the other ADRs. And even if you called at this point, it's 2 days before your trip. The only person that's going to help is the lucky soul who walks up at the restaurant and gets the opening. It helps no one who is trying to call in advance to get it.
I'm sorry if I misread your post, if this is not what you did. But if I understood it correctly, then it's just a perfect example of a major problem with this system (and our world in general). Everyone looking out for themselves, not thinking about anybody else. Sad.
Rant over.