I can't believe even your artist was lecturing you on it being visible! That's crazy to me. Obviously it's going to be visible...that's the point! I just got a massive tattoo on my forearm (as in it covers my whole forearm) and my tattoo artist didn't say a word. All my boss said "We just need to make sure you have a blazer for client meetings" lol. Your tattoo looks great!! I hope you love it
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I stand out at work, around the people on my team and people that I interact with often. If it's people that I don't work with as much or people that I'm not comfortable around then I'm quiet. It takes me a while before I really start to feel comfortable and I think some people take that as me being rude or standoffish but in reality, I'm just shy.
Pretty much anytime outside of that I prefer to hide in the background. I don't like to be the center of attention in any circumstance. I was actually just talking about this with my mother. I much prefer to blend in and not have all the attention on me. Sometimes it's unavoidable. But any time I can avoid it then I definitely do.
Leaving for work travel today! I packed my gym clothes and some resistance bands so that I can hit the gym tonight. The biggest hang up for me is going to be making smart eating choices. So just send me strong will and good eating vibes!