Lancaster is one of DH and my fave places, specially in the autumn to see all the beautiful foliage. It's step back in time area, as others have suggested lots to see and do, but even the browsing makes for a fun filled day! I won't go into all the restaurants as there's plenty of advise already offered. They are all good! No doubt, you've picked a great place for you and your Mom to really enjoy your time making special memories in Lancaster and surrounding areas.
Our fave place to stay is Fulton's Steamboat - http://www.fultonsteamboatinn.com/ very quaint and arranged like an old steamboat. Has a beautiful lake you sit and relax to feed the ducks and coy fishes Sign up for Cpt. club on line and rec auto discounts on room, etc. When booking you can sign up for the breakfast for 2 - delicious!
We've also enjoyed a dinner trip on the Strasburg Rail - http://www.strasburgrailroad.com/flavors-of-lancaster-county.php
Along w/The Sights and Sounds Theater you have tickets for - we've also enjoyed the The Dutch Apple Dinner Theater: http://www.dutchapple.com/Content/default.asp . Always a good play/musical that includes a buffet - not 5* food, but good selection of descent food.
Our kids gave DH a Hot Air Ballon ride for his 75th BD he had a blast! - http://www.ushotairballoon.com/pa_flights/lancaster-county.asp
If you're in to covered bridges, there's an interesting self guided tour you can take that we've enjoyed. http://www.padutchcountry.com/activities/pa-covered-bridges.asp
We also enjoy having lunch at the Central Market where all the local farmer's set up inside/outside a huge building. You can enjoy lunch while watching a school band perform marching around market. http://www.centralmarketlancaster.com/about/
When/if photobucket decides to cooperate, I'll try to post some pix.![]()
I had reservations for the hot air balloon ride but it was too windy and cancelled. That is one thing on my list to do though! Glad to hear your husband had such a great time!!